If you read my blog you will know I am a professional dominatrix. Men and sometimes women come to me to be dominated, obviously, there’s much more to it than that but today we just don’t have the time to get into that. Today I wanted to talk to you about dress-up, the types of things that I wear inside of my dungeon. I have a whole dresser filled just with BDSM outfits, I know what each of my clients likes and so I give them what they want. I am going to show you my favorite pieces of BDSM inspired lingerie and outfits and just because I am a professional it doesn’t mean that you can’t dress up too. Become me as you wear these pieces, get into the role and dominate your partner, have them on their knees.
I’m A Dominatrix Who Loves To Dress Up (Both in and outside of work hours)
I love the dressing up aspect of BDSM, it really gets me into the role of who I am and what I do. Wearing what each individual client loves is just part of the experience for me and becoming the right dominatrix for the right client is essential.
Dressing up has always made me feel way more confident in my abilities as a dominatrix, in and outside of my dungeon I like to play the part and even if I am not in my dungeon but on a date with someone, I like to dress up in cute lingerie and feel my best at all times.
My Luxury BDSM Lingerie/Outfits
I obviously have some luxury outfits, it’s a necessity to have everything I need in my dungeon and some stuff can cost more than others. On the whole, my luxury stuff is usually a whole lot better than the cheaper items you can find but not always. If you’re not into luxury I have some budget-friendly outfits further on below that suit a smaller price range, these specific items I have are in fact up there with my luxury stuff, which isn’t always the case.
Why I Buy Luxury?
I buy luxury because I have found it to be just a lot better, it lasts longer than two minutes, I can wear it again and again without it showing any signs of wear and tear, there’s no sag which is a nightmare with PVC and leather items and my luxury pieces are usually figure hugging which highlights my body and shows off the good bits like my slim figure and natural curves.
Anything For Plus Size?
I am not plus size but I know a lot of my bigger girls out there can never find anything at all flattering if they are plus-sized and into BDSM dress-up. I have owned my pieces for ages but when I was finding them on their websites to show you, I found that most of them go up to 3XL so there is usually something there for anyone, which is what we love.
The Dominatrix Outfit I Wear (Dominant)
This is one of my most used dominant outfits, it’s such a beautiful piece. It fits me like a glove (the dress can be made to measure and if you don’t want that there is a standard sizing guide), it hugs my body and flatters every single inch of it, it makes me look like a dominant queen who uses men up like they are nothing. It comes in a few colors but I have it in just black and red. Produced in Los Angeles, this dress has been worn hundreds of times by me and I just love it.
Another Amazing Dominatrix Outfit (Dominant)
The Juno dress is ultra-flattering because it has a color block design, which means the contrasting colors create an illusion of a slimmer waist. I love the long sleeves and sultry hemline of this dress, they really make me feel good inside of my dungeon and I can imagine if I was a normal woman, I would certainly pick a dress like this one as it’s not only extremely flattering but it could be worn to a party not just in the bedroom.
A Dress For A Certain Type Of Client
I get certain types of men that now and again want something a little different and when I wear this sweetheart dress I like to play a dominant housewife/mother figure role, this is just my preference, I think it’s an amazing dress that could be worn for literally any type of roleplay and fetish play but for me, it’s for those men that enjoy me looking a certain type of way. It comes in so many different colors and it’s such a beautiful shape when it sits on the body, I love wearing this one.
The Sexy Latex Dress (Dominant)
Some of my clients like to see a whole lot more skin than others and this latex dress does just that. It has an ‘easy access’ (what I like to call it) zipper that runs the whole length of the dress, the tank-style straps and the ability to unzip the entirety of your cleavage leave little to the imagination and sometimes that’s just what I need. It makes my ass look amazing, it hugs my body and it is just one of the latex dresses you will wear again and again.
Wet Look BDSM Lingerie (Both Dom and Sub)
I love wet look lingerie and outfits, I think they can add a whole new meaning to an outfit. I have detailed my favorites below for you to check out. The reason I believe luxury wet look to be better than the more affordable wet look is that it actually keeps its shine rather than becoming dull after a couple of uses. I want my wet look to be shining and glossing, even if we are in a dark dungeon.
Madonna Gown
Depending on what type of dominatrix I need to be that day this gown inspired wet look BDSM dress is the ultimate gatekeeping dress. With a zipper down the back for easy removal, this gown can transform you into any type of dominatrix, I have been known to transform into a gothic queen, punishing her slaves in this dress as well as a horny vampire and a man-hating witch but that’s just me.
My Bad Ass B*tch Dress
For new clients who don’t really know what they want me to wear or when I just don’t know what to wear myself this badass dress is the perfect option. I think also if you have never tried out latex before this would be a great beginner’s dress. It’s a gorgeous LBD (little black dress), that’s pencil length, it hugs all of your curves and makes you look just divine.
Pink Latex Dress (Submissive)
I have mentioned a few times that I am a switch, it is nowhere near as often that I am a submissive as it is I am a dominant but it does happen. This dress is one of my favorites for submissive play it’s playful, cute, flattering and because it still is made from latex it still has a kinky edge to it too. If you want something that doesn’t hug your stomach or curves this dress is perfect as the swing skirt hangs off your body rather than to it.
Leather Lingerie Garter Belt
This garter belt looks incredible when worn with a latex bra, latex panties, and hand-made latex stockings, it’s so sexy and it always makes my clients go wild, especially when they can look but can’t touch. Something I like to do is walk around in just my leather lingerie and watch their faces in desperation as they want to touch me so badly.
My Favorite Dominatrix Lingerie
If you are looking for something classically simple the bra, panties, stockings, and garter above are ideal for anyone looking to get started. However one of my favorite pieces of lingerie is this bodysuit. It’s figure-hugging, it looks amazing, it’s kinky, sexy and deviant without actually showing everything, it makes me feel sexy and free without constricting my movements. It’s just an all-round great piece of kit to have, especially if you want to feel sexy, dominant and coated in latex at the same time.
My Budget-Friendly Slutty BDSM Lingerie/Outfits
I wanted to include something for everyone out of my BDSM outfits trunk, I know not everyone has the budget to spend money on luxury pieces so I have put it some of my much more affordable outfits without compromising on the quality.
These Are Handpicked (no cheap materials, just a cheaper price)
I did mention that the reason I buy luxury is that for me the quality is a lot better and it lasts a lot longer however I did say this isn’t always the case and below are the more affordable outfits I have included which are great quality and are up there with some of my more pricey items. I have found them to last me a long time, there hasn’t been any compromise on the quality and I look great in them.
This Amazing Latex Mini Dress
The wide straps on this latex mini dress do give you extra support for your chest area, which if you have bigger breasts like me this is a great addition. This dress also comes with four metal suspenders that can be attached to any stockings or your choosing. I love the high hemline and low scoop neckline of this latex dress, it makes it so sexy and very flattering to wear. Despite the price, the latex on this dress if stretchy, figure-hugging and it always looks amazing (so long as you care for it properly).
Rubber Dress
If you want to show off a little more skin this plunge neckline rubber dress does just that. With a high shine finish and design that draws attention to all of your best bits, this latex dress is perfect for beginners and professionals alike. It demands attention, captivates your sub and really shows the room who is boss, something I very much appreciate in a BDSM dress.
Bondage Zipper Teddy
If you’re a fan of the wet look this teddy style bondage outfit is outstanding. Long sleeves to show you are sometimes modest and a zipper that reaches from the very neckline all the way around and up towards your spine. It offers easy access without removal, it elongates your legs and makes your ass look like a snack.
Submissive Lingerie
A feminine design with lace detailing, supportive cups and suspender straps this cute little piece is one of my more purse-friendly submissive lingerie sets. It clings to your curves, flatters your waist, shows off your cleavage and it does cover your stomach. I love wearing this when I am playing a submissive role as it is easy, flattering and simple.
Basic Crotchless Teddy
It’s a gorgeous wet look piece that has a dual-direction zipper for easy access. If you want to expose more of yourself just zip down from the neckline or start from your ass. The high neckline of this teddy gives it the illusion of modesty but the teddy design, crotchless feature and wet look style give it a BDSM dominatrix edge that we need.
Bustier Set
If one of my clients is a breast man (I have a few) and he deserves punishment or a treat depending on which way you look at it, this cupless bustier set is perfect. With adjustable garter straps, a design that shows off your ass, curves, legs, and breasts without compromising on the dominatrix aspect, it’s a great set that works for anyone and always looks amazing.
This Super Sexy Wet Look Peak a Boo (Plus Size)
I haven’t actually tried this plus size wet look bustier set but I thought it looked too cute not to include for my bigger girls. It’s a mix of dominant and feminine lace, it’s flattering on the curves, waist, and breasts, you don’t have to remove it should you wish to get down and dirty with your submissive.
Spanking Panties
I have worn this skirt many times and it still gets the same reaction, as I turn around in my dungeon my submissive little men just can’t believe their eyes. It makes my ass look great, it really frames it and highlights it. I wear it with or without a G-string, depending on the mood I am in. I sometimes invite my submissives to spank me and if it’s not good enough I will do it back to them and guess what? it’s never good enough. I know some people will use this skirt to be spanked properly by their partner but I use it as a teasing piece.
Crotchless Thong Set (Seriously Amazing)
I like to wear this lingerie set under a dress or a coat, revealing it to my submissive when I feel like they really need to be shown who is boss. It’s crotchless which is great for me as it allows me to tease my sub easily and it looks amazing on the body, it’s one of my most flattering pieces and it always goes down a treat in my dungeon.
How I Dress Up As A Dominatrix
Every dominatrix has her own unique way of doing things but I have my own routine of things that I do that I want to share with you.
- Firstly makeup, if a client requests I wear none then I don’t but this is very rare. When I am a dominatrix I wear intense black eye makeup that makes my green eyes pop, red or dark purple lipstick to really give me a sultry yet slightly scary edge.
- I wear wigs sometimes depending on my client, some prefer blondes, some short hair, some just prefer the mystique of a wig so I make sure I always have what they are looking for. I have left some of my favorite wigs below.
- I make sure I have a wax every few weeks to keep me hairless, sometimes I grow out my bush if a client requests it and actually this is becoming ever more popular.
- I wear the same perfume every single time my clients visit, I like them to smell of me when they leave.
Below are some more things that I own to really transform me into that dominatrix goddess they all know.
Latex Dressing Aid (helps get on latex outfits)
If you struggle with getting into latex or even if you want to prevent any issues with removing your outfits due to sweating, I always put on some dressing aid. It allows you to glide into your latex outfits easily and makes you feel soft and silky as you do so.
You can also use talc powder if you don’t have any of this to hand.
My Trusty Cincher Belt
A cincher belt makes dresses like the first dress on this list really pop, it brings you in at the waist and it adds a steampunk vibe to your outfit. It can be pulled, tugged and manhandled and it won’t shift.
These Wigs Are My Everything <3
I have naturally long brunette hair, I like to curl it before my clients arrive but sometimes they want something a little bit different and that’s when my wigs come in.
This is my blunt red bob – It’s a gorgeous wig that I love to wear whenever I can get the chance. It suits my face well and highlights my green eyes, it always transforms me into a slutty dominatrix and its always a hit with my clients.
This is my icey grey long wig – It can be styled with heat, washed at a cool temperature and it looks super sexy. When I am an ‘icey grey’ I like to make mistakes, causing pain to my submissives. Whoops!
My Pink long sultry wig – I wear this wig when I am submissive and when I am dominant, it’s a dream for a switch. I can be bossy and controlling or cute and innocent with it on, you decide.
My black and purple wig – I am intense with this wig on, I will punish you harder than you have been punished and quiz you on some general knowledge. Ding, wrong answer! Punishment awaits you.
My Masquerade Mask (perfect for BDSM parties)
A masquerade mask can be essential for some clients and I always make sure to have some on hand for them and for me. I use them in my dungeon but I have been known to wear them to BDSM parties and gatherings.
Add Some Latex Gloves
These long latex gloves can really complete a look, I like to wear them with short sleeve BDSM dresses and lingerie, they feel nice, they can be peeled off easily and they really make me look and feel the part. They are an essential finishing piece to some of my outfits.
Keep your latex Clean Cleaning Guide
To keep latex in the best possible condition using a latex shiner spray really keeps it in tip-top condition without compromising on the quality. If my pieces start looking a little dull I like to shine them back up with some spray to bring them back to life.
You can keep latex clean by washing them in warm water, don’t use soap or any other products. Leave them to dry properly before storing them away and never ever attempt to put heat such as a tumble dryer onto your latex pieces, it will ruin them. Use a dry towel to rub off the excess water and dry your pieces flat.
If I have a stain on one of my pieces I use a small amount of rubbing alcohol and gently work the stain with a paper towel, I don’t press too hard and it does come off.
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