In my dungeon, BDSM tape is a must. I have rolls and rolls of it hidden away to pull out whenever I need it. I love using it on clients, it’s a different way to restrain if you’re bored of ropes and cuffs and some people don’t enjoy that type of restriction. BDSM tape allows you to tie up and restrain your partner without needing a lock or a key, it’s sturdy, durable and looks sexy. I use it on my clients inside of my dungeon (I am a professional dominatrix) and in my private life I like to use it too, it’s one of my favorite forms of restraint.
I Love Using Duct Tape To Restrain During Sex
I love the feel of the tape on my skin or on a client’s skin. The sound it makes as I unpeel it from its roll, securing my client’s hands or feet with the tape and sometimes adding a strip across their mouth for good measure.
I find BDSM tape to be easy to use, it has a lot of possibilities and what you can secure your partner too is virtually endless. I like to use duct tape on clients who prefer less intense restraint and if I am introducing them into the BDSM world. I like to ease them in and the duct tape is non-intimidating and easy for them to work with, especially if they’re not sure what they want to be restrained or how restricted they actually want to be.
When it comes to my private life and me using duct tape, I love it to be around my wrists, ankles and across my mouth, I like to feel totally restricted and inhibited, it’s a primal feeling that I get when I am so vulnerable with a partner and I love it.
Why Using Tape During Sex Is Amazing
There’s so much to it, I feel like it’s quite an underrated sex accessory. Sex tape should be used by everyone at least once. Whenever somebody new comes into my dungeon and I use duct tape on them, they are always thrilled and it’s always the first time they have used it.
- The sensation – The sensation of it being wrapped around your wrists or ankles is delightful, it feels tight with some pulling which restricts your movements but it feels comfortable and one quick snip and it can be off in seconds.
- Pulling it off when someone has been naughty – When one of my clients has been bad, I like to rip it off of their skin, it makes them moan and they usually learn their lesson.
- The restraint effect – BDSM tape offers restraint without the intimidation or need for locks and keys. If you buy a good quality kind, it will be durable and able to withstand rough play. It limits your movement and looks very provocative.
- It’s so easy to use, there’s not really much skill that goes into it, just a few base guidelines you should follow.
- Do you want to be tied to the bedpost? no problem. Do you want me to restrain your legs? easy. Do you want to use handcuffs? Instant.
The BDSM Tape I Use
I have included below all of the BDSM tapes that I use on a regular basis when you’re looking, make sure to check for self-adhesive tape, that’s the best to use. I hope you enjoy looking through my collection. If you have any questions please just leave them in the comment section below.
Duct Tape (vet wrap):
Make sure that you avoid duct tape, it leaves behind lots of glue residue. This stuff is a little kinder on the skin, it’s made for animals and humans, it doesn’t pull on the hair and it will restrain your partner easily whilst still allowing them an easy escape route, especially if you are both new to tape or restriction play. It’s easy to use and comes in bulk too, so you can be sure you always have some on hand.
Special BDSM Tape (My Favorite)
I LOVE this tape, it’s reusable, a great price and you get 20m of tape to play with. It doesn’t leave any residue on the skin, the black latex appearance gives this tape unique bondage feel to it. It’s a strong tape, it can withstand a hell of a lot and it sticks to itself. You can use it for restraint purposes, to make lingerie, blindfolds, mouth mufflers, and more, you just need a little imagination.
Amazon Option (I know everyone loves amazon)
This tape comes in four different colors, it measures 35′ and it’s ideal for all sorts of tape lovers, no matter your experience. It’s easy to use, non-sticky, it keeps your sub in check and it’s a doddle to play with. The width of the tape is 2”, ideal for most people and for what most people are looking for.
Safety Shears (Must Own)
I always make sure to have these safety shears to hand when I am playing with bondage tape, it’s so important to be able to get your partner out a situation quickly. With other types of restraints, they are usually fastened or locked so you can release them quickly with tape it can be a little trickier. Using these shears you can cut through the tape easily and safely.
How I Use Tape During Sex
For personal use I like to use my tape as a restraint, ensuring the person I am with secures it around my ankles, wrists and across my mouth. I enjoy the sensation of it, the way it feels on my skin and how it feels when it’s being removed. It’s a very erotic experience and I enjoy the restriction of the tape, it feels very sensual and I just adore using tape during sex.
How I Use My BDSM Tape The Dominatrix Way
When I am in my dungeon, using BDSM tape on clients, I do things a little differently. I am a dominatrix after all and I like to make the experience one to remember. Below I am going to outline the things that I do to my clients when we are using tape. If you want to learn just how it’s done, read on.
Restraint Positions (What To Tape)
Restraining with bondage tape is a lot easier than people think. You can look at any restraint online and you can replicate with tape and maybe some BDSM rope if you really need it.
Here are just some ideas of tape restraint:
- Handcuffs
- Legcuffs
- Hostage (chair), tie the tape about their chest, wrists behind the chair, legs taped to the chair.
- Wrists to Legs, on their back, tie the person’s ankles to their wrists, so that they are open and ready for you.
- Spreader bar with hands taped to it
- Restrain hands to headboard with tape
Restraining To Objects
I like to use the objects around me to aid me in restraining my clients. I will use things from poles to posts, using the tape to restrain them into place and make use of the things in my dungeon. However, if you’re at home here are a few things you can use as a makeshift base:
- Headboard
- Chairs
- Their own body
- Leg of furniture
- Sunbed
Roleplay
Roleplay is another big reason people like to your tape, some people like to get a chair, restrain their ‘hostage’ with tape and play with them. Some enjoy the idea of catching a thief and being a good cop by restraining them before the backup arrives.
Other things people like to do is roleplay being in a dominatrix dungeon, in a sticky situation at work and the list goes on. Your imagination is the only thing stopping you.
Making Too Much Noise
I love having my mouth restrained with the tape, cutting off a small strip and placing it across my mouth is wonderful for me. I do it to my clients too, when they are being too noisy I like to make them hush by slipping a piece of tape over their mouths, seeing their eyes light up is always a pleasure and stifling their moans feels great.
Using the vet tape that I mentioned above is the safest to use due to it not being porous, however for a short amount of time I do use my other tapes too but if it’s going to be a prolonged session the vet tape is your best bet.
Be very careful to not block both airways (nose and mouth) and always keep fabric away from the nose when the mouth is restrained with tape, it’s up to you to check on and look after your partner in this vulnerable state. Ensure they can breathe and ensure you have a code you can use if they aren’t feeling too good.
Pulling It Off, moving and add tension
I LOVE the sensation of removing the tape, it’s just as fun as putting it on for me. The tension of the material pulling away from the skin feels great and if it’s peeled off quickly it awakens your senses, making you moan as your nerve endings are awoken into action.
When I have tape on someone I like to play around with this, pulling on the tape, creating tension between the skin, ripping it off their mouth and putting it back again, placing it down hard, pulling it as tightly as it will go. You can enjoy a lot of sensory play with tape without even really realizing it.
Add Blindfold
I like to always add a blindfold into the mix, having my client restrained, gagged and having their mouth taped up and then being blindfolded is like giving up every ounce of control you have. I like to use this blindfold, it provides total darkness and allows you to really let go of your inhibitions as you are punished by having your sight removed from you temporarily. Your senses are heightened instantly and it makes everything feel a whole lot more intense.
Sex Toy Torture
Using a sex toy to essentially ‘torture’ your partner who is restricted by the BDSM tape is what we professionals do and it is mastery at the next level.
Restrain their hands and legs and then tape a sex toy in place to stimulate their Cock/Pussy/Ass, once you’re satisfied with its position, turn it on and watch them have orgasms again and again and again.
If you want to be more involved you can always use the sex toy on them as they are bound by the bondage tape as they act just how restraints do. Have them all tied up with tape and get their favorite toy on their most sensitive area, stimulating them and making them cum endlessly.
Add Rope
Adding rope as well as using bondage tape is a match made in heaven. By using the added rope you can ensure complete sturdiness, you can try out breast bondage and rope bondage and it allows you to focus less on the restraint aspect of the tape and more the sensory side of it. This is my favorite bondage rope to use. Check out this rope guide.
Check Out R/Tapebondage
I definitely recommend checking out this subreddit, it’s filled with ideas, advice, and tips on how to use bondage tape and it will allow you to really get some ideas on how it’s done visually and it will get you in the mood. If you have any tips you would like to share just leave them ion the comments below, I love hearing from you.
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