In this category I wanted to share with you the how to’s of the BDSM world. I know it can be hard getting to grips with how you actually use certain pieces of equipment, how you do something like spanking correctly and how you actually get into the dom or sub role.
I wanted to create somewhere where you could read all about the intricacies of BDSM from a professional standpoint but also as just a normal woman. I am not going to pretend everything is easy to master because it isn’t but there are ways you can do things to make BDSM play a whole lot easier, ensuring it flows properly.
In my guides, you will see how it’s done, how it’s not done and how you can use and do the things I do without having to spend years of practicing as I did.
Although I am a professional dom, I am also human, I have made mistakes and I understand how not everything is easy to talk about and do and I want to come to you with professional advice whilst still understanding how intimidating certain things are and how to make them work easier for you.
I appreciate that not everyone has a sex dungeon but everyone still wants that same thrill my clients get from coming to me. That’s what I want to master with my BDSM guides, showing you how it’s done whilst understand that not everyone is as open as me.
No, I am honest. It’s not easy to master everything but if you take the things you like and master them, things will start falling into place. For instance if you enjoy rope play, master a knot and then another and then another and eventually you will understand that rope like it is part of your own body.
I Am Not Confident Enough To Try Something In Your Guides
Nobody is born knowing how to do this stuff, it takes patience and practice and although I had a lot of confidence walking into this world I still sometimes struggle with certain things and I can even second guess myself from time to time. You just have to breathe, believe in yourself and understand what you are doing and when you feel good enough to try it, just go for it.
Should I Have A Safe Word?
You are going to see how important safewords are when you read my blog and if you don’t have one, make one right now whilst you are reading this. I mention them all of the time and I make sure every single one of my clients has one. They are so important in BDSM, you need to know someone’s limits or it can be very dangerous. What’s yours?
I Don’t Understand Something In Your Guide, How Can I Get More Help?
If you have read one of my articles once, read it again and if you still are having troubles you can send me a message via my contact page or send me a message on Twitter. I will try and help you out as best as I can.
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