If you didn’t know, I am a professional dominatrix and locking up my clients is one of the top things that I do. Some like to be locked up for days, some a few hours, some just a few minutes and some until they just can’t take any more. In this guide, I am going to be giving you a step by step process of just how I use cock cages, why my male clients love them and if you follow my rules you will be able to use your cock cage just as I do and have a dominatrix experience without even leaving your home. Are you ready? Read on.

I Like My Men And Sissies Under Lock And Key

It’s true, I like my men and my little sissies to be locked away, I like their cocks to be mine. Whatever I say or do they must oblige and there’s nothing they can do about it. I like my men and my sissies to be on the edge of my every word, desperate to please their mistress, all whilst I have complete control over their pleasure and their pain. Seeing their desperation and their submission to me is ever so exciting and I just love sliding that chastity device over their cocks and throwing away the key.

Why I Love Locking Up Men With Tiny Cocks

This applies to most of you reading this. My men usually pretend like their cocks are average and even above average but once they meet me I like to tell them they are totally wrong, they must be delusional because most of the time, their cocks are tiny. So small my cock cages struggle to stay in place.

I love locking up my men and sissies with tiny cocks to teach them a lesson, let them know that even though they are small they can still be punished like big boys. Seeing a small cock straining to be let out of its chastity cage is my favorite thing, it even makes me giggle sometimes.

Will You Submit To Me Like A Good Boy?

When you enter my dungeon you must be prepared to submit to me, I know it can be hard to let go but I am here to teach you a lesson. Once you are inside of my dominatrix dungeon you must be naked, you must remove all of your clothes and if pre-agreed you must allow me to place you inside of a chastity device instantly unless you have asked to cum which in that case the cock cage sometimes comes later (more on that below).

If you’re a good boy maybe I will let you out sooner but if you’re a bad boy, I will punish you until you learn your lesson.

Once you are under my lock and key, you are my little plaything, I can do to you as I wish and there are no if’s or but’s. I am in charge here and if I say lock yourself up then you lock yourself up. If you don’t submit to my chastity I will make you submit and the punishment and humiliation that will ensue will make you feel like a very, very naughty boy. If you submit to me like a good boy, I will reward you with lashings, humiliation, orgasm denial and so much more. Now doesn’t that sound like fun?

My Chastity Rules Are Simple:

I discuss the rules with my clients before they come into my dungeon, I learn what they like and dislike, however, these are just some of my basic rules that must be followed:

• No complaining.

• All orders must be obeyed or you will be punished.

• No cumming until I say so or face punishment.

• We must have a safe word beforehand.

• No touching me unless I say.

• You must be fully nude before the chastity is applied.

• The key is kept on me at all times, you may never touch it.

• Being unlocked does not mean you can touch yourself.

You’re a Cuckold When You’re Locked Up

If you have a partner whilst in a chastity device all locked up nice and tight, they still need to pleasure themselves when you are locked away. In my dungeon I will play with myself, teasing my little sissy but if you’re at home, know that your partner can use sex toys or other men to have some fun and you just have to deal with it. Okay?

The Chastity Devices I Will Use On You

Inside of my chastity trunk, you will find a plethora of cock cages and below I have listed just for you my favorites. You can buy one from the list below and feel what it would be like to experience me. Follow my instructions and be a good boy for me.

Cock Cage

I’m sure your small cock will fit perfectly inside of this sexy chrome chastity kit. It comes with 5 different rings, locking pins, ventilation, and urination holes. You don’t need to wear a belt with this cock cage, which allows for freedom of movement.

My Cute Little Sissy Cock Cage

Such a cute little pink cock cage, perfect for my little sissies. Short, humiliating and ideal for my naughty sissies. This cock cage comes with locking pins, a brass padlock, locks and even 5 U-rings for the perfect fit. I use this cute little cock cage to show my sissy who is in charge and it always goes down a treat.

Chastity For Showers Not Growers (this will be too big for most of you).

It’s ventilated, transparent in design so that you can keep an eye on your cock and it comes with everything you will need to tailor it perfectly to your cock.

Vampire Gloves (So That I Know You’ve Been A Good Boy)

These gloves are my ideal choice when I want to put my men to the test. Slip-on these gloves, I will secure you in place with the lock and if you dare touch yourself when I am not looking you will feel small spikes wherever you touch if I catch you and you are being punished I will make you squeeze hard, punishing you with sharp teeth like spikes for being such a bad boy.

The Houdini

The Houdini comes in S, M, and L but we all know most of you will be using S. The Houdini cock cage is a metal tube that secures around your balls and shaft, the head of your penis completely exposed and at the mercy of me. Do you dare get erect inside of this?

You’re Probably To Pathetic To Survive My Chastity Teasing Routine

The men that come to my dungeon are always too pathetic to not whimper or beg for mercy when I tease them, all of them are not man enough for what I do. Are you? If you’re alone use these toys and see if you can do it to yourself (where possible) and if you are with a partner, can you last through my teasing routine with them? I doubt it.

Pegging Your Slut Ass With A Nice Dildo

The cock I use when I fuck my men in the ass. (you can buy it yourself and feel what it would be like to have me fuck you). Its suction cup base allows me to make them fuck themselves when I am too unbothered to do so, it also attaches to a harness so I can use a Peggy on their ass whenever I see fit.

Stretching You With My Biggest Anal Toy

This is the anal toy I use to stretch my sissies out. It’s ultra-realistic, girthy, it measures 8.5 inches and it’s perfect for teaching my sissies a lesson and making sure their ass remembers me and what they did wrong. It’s extra thick, it can be used hands-free (ideal for you if I am not there) and it can be attached to a harness, my sissies always try and behave before I bring this cock out.

My Little Magic Wand

I like to hold my magic wand against my sissies balls, around the cage and even on the premium (the bit between the ass and cock). It drives my clients wild, they are all so desperate to cum once I start using it and just to top it off I like to use it on myself when they are all tied up so that they can just watch me and whimper in desperation.

Keeping You All Filled Up

I like to slip this jeweled butt plug into their ass as soon as they walk into my dungeon, whilst I tease their cock and punish them accordingly the butt plug does a lot of work, teasing their ass, getting it ready for my dildos and stretching them out a little. You can use this at home too before you use my dildos on yourself, it’ll prepare your ass and you will be obeying my orders.

No Cumming, No Cumming Ever!

If my client wants to cum (pre-agreed) then it’s completely up to me when they cum. They lose all control of their cocks once they set foot inside of my dungeon. If they dare cum without my permission, then I will lock them up inside of a chastity cage and completely ignore them. They know the punishment is severe so only a few have ever dared go against my rules.

I Never Wear Underwear And I Love Short Dresses

Unless a client asks for me to wear something special when I am using the cock cages I like to wear short little dresses and no underwear. This is the ultimate tease as they watch me bend over and walk around my dungeon and even sometimes if they really deserve the punishment (most of the time) I will get on top of them when they are in the cage and let them feel my vagina on them.

Blowjobs

When inside the cage, teasing is my ultimate aim. I like to lick, suck and caress their cock, urging it to get bigger and then punish it when it does. Any pre-cum leaks from their head and they will be spanked and humiliated.

Sometimes I Will Need You To Clean Me…

If I have cum, if there is your cum on me or if I have spilled something then I will sometimes need you to clean me with your tongue, if that’s not ok we are going to have a problem and you are going to need to be punished.

Sissies Only On some occasions, If I’m with a sissy then I get one of my big, strong bi friends to fuck him, depending on how good his been will determine how hard or how soft he gets fucked. If he wants to be fucked by me I will get out my biggest dildo to really show him how pathetic he is.

Questions I Get About Male Chastity

I do get some questions about male chastity, things like the danger, how it’s done, how I do it and what kind of men enjoy it so I have answered a few of these questions below. If you do have any questions leave them below or send them in and I will get them answered for you.

Will I Be Your Keyholder?

Are you a little sissy who wants me to hold their key?
I understand that you’re probably too small to really please a woman, so you may as well be locked up. Check out my Patreon and maybe I can help you out.

How Long Do I Lock You Up For (permanently)?

If you’re in my dungeon it can be for as long as you’re with me, some clients like to keep it on for a few days after and had me send them commands and orders until they come back to see me again. However, on my patreon, I have lots of instructions for you to obey. You can get days off for good behavior, days added on when you’re naughty and I expect updates every hour because I need to know you’re locked up at all times.

Is Male Chastity Dangerous?

Yes, it can be however if you’re switched on and you follow the guidelines then it’s perfectly safe. Ensuring you have a safe word, a spare key and you know your limits as well as understanding the need for basic hygiene you will be fine.

Where Do I Find A Keyholder?

If you’re looking for a keyholder, maybe you want me to be your keyholder? You can go to my patreon, fetish.com or Reddit.

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I’m A Dominatrix Who Loves To Dress Up (Both in and outside of work hours)

I love the dressing up aspect of BDSM, it really gets me into the role of who I am and what I do. Wearing what each individual client loves is just part of the experience for me and becoming the right dominatrix for the right client is essential.

Dressing up has always made me feel way more confident in my abilities as a dominatrix, in and outside of my dungeon I like to play the part and even if I am not in my dungeon but on a date with someone, I like to dress up in cute lingerie and feel my best at all times.

My Luxury BDSM Lingerie/Outfits

I obviously have some luxury outfits, it’s a necessity to have everything I need in my dungeon and some stuff can cost more than others. On the whole, my luxury stuff is usually a whole lot better than the cheaper items you can find but not always. If you’re not into luxury I have some budget-friendly outfits further on below that suit a smaller price range, these specific items I have are in fact up there with my luxury stuff, which isn’t always the case.

Why I Buy Luxury?

I buy luxury because I have found it to be just a lot better, it lasts longer than two minutes, I can wear it again and again without it showing any signs of wear and tear, there’s no sag which is a nightmare with PVC and leather items and my luxury pieces are usually figure hugging which highlights my body and shows off the good bits like my slim figure and natural curves.

Anything For Plus Size?

I am not plus size but I know a lot of my bigger girls out there can never find anything at all flattering if they are plus-sized and into BDSM dress-up. I have owned my pieces for ages but when I was finding them on their websites to show you, I found that most of them go up to 3XL so there is usually something there for anyone, which is what we love.

The Dominatrix Outfit I Wear (Dominant)

This is one of my most used dominant outfits, it’s such a beautiful piece. It fits me like a glove (the dress can be made to measure and if you don’t want that there is a standard sizing guide), it hugs my body and flatters every single inch of it, it makes me look like a dominant queen who uses men up like they are nothing. It comes in a few colors but I have it in just black and red. Produced in Los Angeles, this dress has been worn hundreds of times by me and I just love it.

Another Amazing Dominatrix Outfit (Dominant)

The Juno dress is ultra-flattering because it has a color block design, which means the contrasting colors create an illusion of a slimmer waist. I love the long sleeves and sultry hemline of this dress, they really make me feel good inside of my dungeon and I can imagine if I was a normal woman, I would certainly pick a dress like this one as it’s not only extremely flattering but it could be worn to a party not just in the bedroom.

A Dress For A Certain Type Of Client

I get certain types of men that now and again want something a little different and when I wear this sweetheart dress I like to play a dominant housewife/mother figure role, this is just my preference, I think it’s an amazing dress that could be worn for literally any type of roleplay and fetish play but for me, it’s for those men that enjoy me looking a certain type of way. It comes in so many different colors and it’s such a beautiful shape when it sits on the body, I love wearing this one.

The Sexy Latex Dress (Dominant)

Some of my clients like to see a whole lot more skin than others and this latex dress does just that. It has an ‘easy access’ (what I like to call it) zipper that runs the whole length of the dress, the tank-style straps and the ability to unzip the entirety of your cleavage leave little to the imagination and sometimes that’s just what I need. It makes my ass look amazing, it hugs my body and it is just one of the latex dresses you will wear again and again.

Wet Look BDSM Lingerie (Both Dom and Sub)

I love wet look lingerie and outfits, I think they can add a whole new meaning to an outfit. I have detailed my favorites below for you to check out. The reason I believe luxury wet look to be better than the more affordable wet look is that it actually keeps its shine rather than becoming dull after a couple of uses. I want my wet look to be shining and glossing, even if we are in a dark dungeon.

Madonna Gown

Depending on what type of dominatrix I need to be that day this gown inspired wet look BDSM dress is the ultimate gatekeeping dress. With a zipper down the back for easy removal, this gown can transform you into any type of dominatrix, I have been known to transform into a gothic queen, punishing her slaves in this dress as well as a horny vampire and a man-hating witch but that’s just me.

My Bad Ass B*tch Dress

For new clients who don’t really know what they want me to wear or when I just don’t know what to wear myself this badass dress is the perfect option. I think also if you have never tried out latex before this would be a great beginner’s dress. It’s a gorgeous LBD (little black dress), that’s pencil length, it hugs all of your curves and makes you look just divine.

Pink Latex Dress (Submissive)

I have mentioned a few times that I am a switch, it is nowhere near as often that I am a submissive as it is I am a dominant but it does happen. This dress is one of my favorites for submissive play it’s playful, cute, flattering and because it still is made from latex it still has a kinky edge to it too. If you want something that doesn’t hug your stomach or curves this dress is perfect as the swing skirt hangs off your body rather than to it.

Leather Lingerie Garter Belt

This garter belt looks incredible when worn with a latex bra, latex panties, and hand-made latex stockings, it’s so sexy and it always makes my clients go wild, especially when they can look but can’t touch. Something I like to do is walk around in just my leather lingerie and watch their faces in desperation as they want to touch me so badly.

My Favorite Dominatrix Lingerie

If you are looking for something classically simple the bra, panties, stockings, and garter above are ideal for anyone looking to get started. However one of my favorite pieces of lingerie is this bodysuit. It’s figure-hugging, it looks amazing, it’s kinky, sexy and deviant without actually showing everything, it makes me feel sexy and free without constricting my movements. It’s just an all-round great piece of kit to have, especially if you want to feel sexy, dominant and coated in latex at the same time.

My Budget-Friendly Slutty BDSM Lingerie/Outfits

I wanted to include something for everyone out of my BDSM outfits trunk, I know not everyone has the budget to spend money on luxury pieces so I have put it some of my much more affordable outfits without compromising on the quality.

These Are Handpicked (no cheap materials, just a cheaper price)

I did mention that the reason I buy luxury is that for me the quality is a lot better and it lasts a lot longer however I did say this isn’t always the case and below are the more affordable outfits I have included which are great quality and are up there with some of my more pricey items. I have found them to last me a long time, there hasn’t been any compromise on the quality and I look great in them.

This Amazing Latex Mini Dress

The wide straps on this latex mini dress do give you extra support for your chest area, which if you have bigger breasts like me this is a great addition. This dress also comes with four metal suspenders that can be attached to any stockings or your choosing. I love the high hemline and low scoop neckline of this latex dress, it makes it so sexy and very flattering to wear. Despite the price, the latex on this dress if stretchy, figure-hugging and it always looks amazing (so long as you care for it properly).

Rubber Dress

If you want to show off a little more skin this plunge neckline rubber dress does just that. With a high shine finish and design that draws attention to all of your best bits, this latex dress is perfect for beginners and professionals alike. It demands attention, captivates your sub and really shows the room who is boss, something I very much appreciate in a BDSM dress.

Bondage Zipper Teddy

If you’re a fan of the wet look this teddy style bondage outfit is outstanding. Long sleeves to show you are sometimes modest and a zipper that reaches from the very neckline all the way around and up towards your spine. It offers easy access without removal, it elongates your legs and makes your ass look like a snack.

Submissive Lingerie

A feminine design with lace detailing, supportive cups and suspender straps this cute little piece is one of my more purse-friendly submissive lingerie sets. It clings to your curves, flatters your waist, shows off your cleavage and it does cover your stomach. I love wearing this when I am playing a submissive role as it is easy, flattering and simple.

Basic Crotchless Teddy

It’s a gorgeous wet look piece that has a dual-direction zipper for easy access. If you want to expose more of yourself just zip down from the neckline or start from your ass. The high neckline of this teddy gives it the illusion of modesty but the teddy design, crotchless feature and wet look style give it a BDSM dominatrix edge that we need.

Bustier Set

If one of my clients is a breast man (I have a few) and he deserves punishment or a treat depending on which way you look at it, this cupless bustier set is perfect. With adjustable garter straps, a design that shows off your ass, curves, legs, and breasts without compromising on the dominatrix aspect, it’s a great set that works for anyone and always looks amazing.

This Super Sexy Wet Look Peak a Boo (Plus Size)

I haven’t actually tried this plus size wet look bustier set but I thought it looked too cute not to include for my bigger girls. It’s a mix of dominant and feminine lace, it’s flattering on the curves, waist, and breasts, you don’t have to remove it should you wish to get down and dirty with your submissive.

Spanking Panties

I have worn this skirt many times and it still gets the same reaction, as I turn around in my dungeon my submissive little men just can’t believe their eyes. It makes my ass look great, it really frames it and highlights it. I wear it with or without a G-string, depending on the mood I am in. I sometimes invite my submissives to spank me and if it’s not good enough I will do it back to them and guess what? it’s never good enough. I know some people will use this skirt to be spanked properly by their partner but I use it as a teasing piece.

Crotchless Thong Set (Seriously Amazing)

I like to wear this lingerie set under a dress or a coat, revealing it to my submissive when I feel like they really need to be shown who is boss. It’s crotchless which is great for me as it allows me to tease my sub easily and it looks amazing on the body, it’s one of my most flattering pieces and it always goes down a treat in my dungeon.

How I Dress Up As A Dominatrix

Every dominatrix has her own unique way of doing things but I have my own routine of things that I do that I want to share with you.

• Firstly makeup, if a client requests I wear none then I don’t but this is very rare. When I am a dominatrix I wear intense black eye makeup that makes my green eyes pop, red or dark purple lipstick to really give me a sultry yet slightly scary edge.
• I wear wigs sometimes depending on my client, some prefer blondes, some short hair, some just prefer the mystique of a wig so I make sure I always have what they are looking for. I have left some of my favorite wigs below.
• I make sure I have a wax every few weeks to keep me hairless, sometimes I grow out my bush if a client requests it and actually this is becoming ever more popular.
• I wear the same perfume every single time my clients visit, I like them to smell of me when they leave.

Below are some more things that I own to really transform me into that dominatrix goddess they all know.

Latex Dressing Aid (helps get on latex outfits)

If you struggle with getting into latex or even if you want to prevent any issues with removing your outfits due to sweating, I always put on some dressing aid. It allows you to glide into your latex outfits easily and makes you feel soft and silky as you do so.

You can also use talc powder if you don’t have any of this to hand.

My Trusty Cincher Belt

A cincher belt makes dresses like the first dress on this list really pop, it brings you in at the waist and it adds a steampunk vibe to your outfit. It can be pulled, tugged and manhandled and it won’t shift.

These Wigs Are My Everything <3

I have naturally long brunette hair, I like to curl it before my clients arrive but sometimes they want something a little bit different and that’s when my wigs come in.

This is my blunt red bob – It’s a gorgeous wig that I love to wear whenever I can get the chance. It suits my face well and highlights my green eyes, it always transforms me into a slutty dominatrix and its always a hit with my clients.

This is my icey grey long wig – It can be styled with heat, washed at a cool temperature and it looks super sexy. When I am an ‘icey grey’ I like to make mistakes, causing pain to my submissives. Whoops!

My Pink long sultry wig – I wear this wig when I am submissive and when I am dominant, it’s a dream for a switch. I can be bossy and controlling or cute and innocent with it on, you decide.

My black and purple wig – I am intense with this wig on, I will punish you harder than you have been punished and quiz you on some general knowledge. Ding, wrong answer! Punishment awaits you.

My Masquerade Mask (perfect for BDSM parties)

A masquerade mask can be essential for some clients and I always make sure to have some on hand for them and for me. I use them in my dungeon but I have been known to wear them to BDSM parties and gatherings.

Add Some Latex Gloves

These long latex gloves can really complete a look, I like to wear them with short sleeve BDSM dresses and lingerie, they feel nice, they can be peeled off easily and they really make me look and feel the part. They are an essential finishing piece to some of my outfits.

Keep your latex Clean Cleaning Guide

To keep latex in the best possible condition using a latex shiner spray really keeps it in tip-top condition without compromising on the quality. If my pieces start looking a little dull I like to shine them back up with some spray to bring them back to life.

You can keep latex clean by washing them in warm water, don’t use soap or any other products. Leave them to dry properly before storing them away and never ever attempt to put heat such as a tumble dryer onto your latex pieces, it will ruin them. Use a dry towel to rub off the excess water and dry your pieces flat.

If I have a stain on one of my pieces I use a small amount of rubbing alcohol and gently work the stain with a paper towel, I don’t press too hard and it does come off.

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What Do Nipple Clamps/Suckers Do (Unlocking Your Second Cock/Clit)?

By using nipple clamps and suckers, you can unlock new sensations, sensations that have never been felt before. The type of sensations that you didn’t think were possible and all of us have them locked away within us. By stimulating the nipple, getting the nerves drawn out and stimulated, you can expect to feel powerful arousal inside of the nipple, delivering all over pleasure to you and even unlocking the erotic sensation of a nipple orgasm.

Some people call the nipple a ‘second clit’, I don’t call them that, I feel the pleasure is different, it’s a different kind of excitement and whilst nipple orgasms are very much real and possible, for me the constant stimulation and incitement surrounding the nipple, giving your body a new kind of pleasure is what I love and I love giving to my clients in my dungeon.

Nipple Play Is For Men And Women (Trust Me)

Contrary to popular belief, men’s nipples can be just as sensitive as women and can be stimulated in just the same way. I am a professional dominatrix and I have had plenty of men come into my dungeon who get off on nipple stimulation, the leaky pre-cum that comes out of the penis is proof enough for me that men also enjoy nipple play and it isn’t just reserved for women.

Most men that come into my dungeon enjoy me using toys on their nipples, it’s a very real pleasure for them and one 99% of them haven’t ever tried out. Don’t take me the wrong way, I LOVE stimulating women’s nipples, I love giving women that pleasure and likewise a lot of them have never had stimulation from their nipples either but I want you to know that both men and women are very capable of deriving pleasure from their nipples. Lots of pleasure.

The Best Nipple Clamps And Suckers In My Collection

I wanted to showcase to you my very best nipple toys, these are all inside of my dungeon, ready to stimulate and bring happiness to my clients. These are all the most-used, the most requested and the toys that I feel bring my clients the most joy. They are suitable for men and for women and if you scroll on down after picking your clamps or suckers, you will see I made a guide, specifically on how I use my clamps on my clients. If you have any questions just leave them in the comment section below.

Adjustable Nipple Clamps (Being In Full Control)

These nipple clamps are completely customizable, you slide the tweezer shape over the nipples (PVC coated for added comfort) and then slide the ring up to your desired intensity. They’re wonderful for beginners or even advanced people as the adjustment really allows you to tailor them to you and your needs. If you like a soft pinch or a strong nip, these clamps are ideal. The chain that connects the two clamps also has a really cute bondage feel to it, which makes them perfect for me and my dungeon.

Beginners Adjustable Clamps

If you’re just starting out with nipple play or if you have no idea where to even start, these beginner adjustable clamps will do the trick. They are silicone coated for your comfort, adjustable by sliding the ring up and down the clamp and they are really non-intimidating. These can be pulled and pinched harder once you get used to them and they are really ideal for those not knowing where to start but for those who know they would like some form of nipple play.

Vibrating Nipple Clamps (When I Want To Light Your World Up)

Vibrations are how I can usually make my clients cum through nipple stimulation, it’s a sensation that cannot be achieved through anything else and it always seems to tip them over the edge. These vibrating nipple suckers are suctioned onto the nipple which in itself increases sensitivity and erectness. Once the vibrations are switched on, the trembling pleasure erupts around the sensitive nipples, forcing the nerve endings to rear their head and be stimulated. This vibration pleasure is sensational and rocks your partner’s world.

Personally, I Recommend adding a massage wand to any of the other nipple clamps on my list (that’s what I do).

My Go-To Suckers (So, Easy To Use, You Can’t Mess Up)

Many people believe that nipple stimulation is one of the key elements to having not just a good orgasm but a great one. These nipple suckers stimulate the nipple, making it sensitive and stimulated without the need to use your hands. You can use these when you are alone or with a partner as they are just so easy to use.

These suckers are perfect for anyone as they do their job, whether you use these before you use clamps or you use these as your main method of stimulation, it’s up to you.

If you want something a little more heavy-duty, I recommend these intense nipple and clit suckers. They do offer a more intense stimulation, so if you enjoy a tailored sensation that’s a little more hardcore, these are ideal.

Magnetic Clamps

These magnetic orbs are really, really strong, they work as you place them on either side of your nipple, drawing blood into the nipple and increasing sensitivity and sensation. They feel great as they clamp your nipples and when you remove them you will find your nipple to be extra sensitive and ready for play, which again, is key to a great orgasm. Another great thing about these magnetic clamps is the fact that they are not just for nipples but you can use them on your labia, balls, and frenulum.

Nipple Clothespin Clamps

These stainless steel clothespin nipple clamps are heavy duty and perfect for nipple torture, tugging and nipple play. They are heavy so they do create a tug of their own. The stainless steel clamps clip onto the nipple or any other unsuspecting area of the body and create a sharp, satisfying pinch to bring stimulation to life. The nipples are forced to be erect, drawing blood into them and thus increasing sensations.

Japanese Clover Clamps (Heavy Duty)

With a firm grip, these clamps will send your nipples into overdrive. If you are looking for something that’s heavy-duty and not for just anyone, these clover clamps will send you into a spin. They are tight on the nipple, delivering sensation like never before and the cute bondage-inspired chain can be pulled for increased stimulation although, with these clamps, you don’t often need it.

Ball Gag With Clamps (For Naughty Boys/Girls)

If you’re looking for something that can give you the BDSM look these nipple clamps have an added twist, they have incorporated a breathable ball gag which looks so sexy and alluring when it’s on. It adds a different vibe to these nipple clamps and I just love seeing one of my subs in this. The clamps are also adjustable so you can play around with how tight or loose you want them to be. The ball gag strap has also an O-ring built into it so you can attach chains, leashes and other compatible objects to it for diverse play.

Womanizer (Not Only for Your Clit…)

I love the womanizer if you want to make a woman have the best orgasm of her life, get her this. If you are a woman, buy this for yourself, it is incredible. It gently sucks your clitoris and the sensations are so much different to a vibrator, whilst I am a big fan of vibrators this suction is unparalleled. Although it is designed to suck your clit into a frenzy it can be used on your nipples too and that same suction used on your nipples is out of this world. It feels like someone is sucking your nipples, bringing them incredible power and building them up to a big orgasm.

DIY Nipple Clamps

Sometimes, people, have a strange ask for me and I have to make something special for them. I would not usually recommend these DIY options for most people, however, I figured I needed to have something for everyone. These are more for quick fixes or to complete a fetish, they aren’t as satisfying as actual purpose-built nipple clamps. Below you will find some of my homemade clamps options:

Chopsticks Method

For this method you take two chopsticks, ensure they are free from any splinters or rough edges, place the two chopsticks together and tie an elastic band around each end, the tighter you loop the elastic band around the chopsticks, the tighter your DIY nipple clamps will be. You can keep testing how tight they are by pushing your little finger into the middle of the chopsticks and testing how tight they are.

Peg Method

Get hold of some clothespegs, the smaller ones are actually better and these can be found in craft stores. With your new clothespeg, secure it over the nipple, as it tightens itself, clamping down on the area. You can also secure your clothespegs to other areas of your body to draw blood into that area and make it more sensitive. Some people also enjoy this as part of torture play.

Hair Clips

Do you know those medium-sized plastic hair clips? They work as great DIY beginners nipple clamps, they secure around the nipple and give you a gentle tug. They are also very discreet to keep around your room and can be used again and again.

Paper Clips

Ensuring there are no sharp edges, you can secure paper clips to your nipples, just like you would a piece of paper. They aren’t the most heavy-duty DIY clamps but they can do the job if you are looking for a little bit of nipple stimulation. Paper clips can be found anywhere and they are easy to use, which is always a bonus with DIY.

How To Use Nipple Clamps Like A Dominatrix

Below I am going to give you a detailed guide on how you can use your new nipple clamps and accessories just like I do, that way when you use them on your partner or on yourself, you can feel and perform like a professional. I hope you enjoy! If you have any questions or anything to add that you do with your clamps, leave your thoughts in the comments below.

Suck, Lick, Squeeze And Grab

I like to make sure foreplay is at the forefront of any type of nipple stimulation. Getting the nipples ready and excited for playtime is essential and will make sure their nipples are prepped for a bit of play.
Warm up the breast and nipples, get them excited. Suck them, pinch them, squeeze them and incorporate them into whatever you are doing. It will really make a difference

Picking Your Nipple Play Toy And Putting It On

Once the nipples are warmed up, apply your new nipple clamp or toy. Start as loosely as you can and once your partner is ready you can tighten the clamps as the nipples get used to the squeezing sensation. If the sex toy you have picked allows you to adjust, do this one nipple at a time, listening to your partner’s body and increasing or decreasing the clamp as they ask.
Beginner advice: Try some temperature play with ice, to numb the nipple and make it easier to apply the clamp at the start.

Restraining the Hands Is Always A Good Idea (Giving Up Control)

I like to make my clients submit to me and I think that’s a great idea even in your personal life. Make your partner lose all control to you by restraining their hands. I like to use these handcuffs on them, knowing they are at the mercy of me, restricted and confined, it’s just a turn on for them and for me. Nipple play essentially is a big part of bondage and BDSM and adding a little bit of restraint into the mix just makes things a whole lot naughtier.

Magic Wand + Nipple = $ӣ%$%^

I have mentioned before how much I love my magic wand. It is for your clitoris but you can use it on your nipple also. Get your magic wand and hold it against the nipple, it feels f**king amazing for men and for women. This constant intense vibration can cause a nipple orgasm so be prepared for absolute pleasure.

Tickle Time Or Spanking Time?

Add a tickler (I like this one) if they’ve been good during nipple play, slowly tease their body with a tickler, stimulating their senses and nerve endings and end with the tickler on their soft nipples. This tickler provides anticipation and awakens the sexual excitement from within, it feels so soft and nice as it runs its way around the soft skin.

If they have been bad and disobedient then add a crop whip and lightly tap their clamped nipples with your crop. Slapping their entire body with it, including their now very sensitive, erect nipples.

Don’t Forget Their Cock/Pussy

I find the best orgasms come from stimulating not just the nipples but the cock and/or the pussy too. Fuck, Suck, Massage, Lick And Play With Them, while they are clamped up inside the nipple toys and everything will feel amazing. Their senses will be heightened, their anticipation and desire to be touched will be electrifying and they will thank you for every touch they can get.

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What Does Cock Worship Mean To Me?

Cock worship to me is like A Ceremony of honoring a cock. I only do it to my most valued cocks, when I am feeling very horny and when the cock is deserving of me and my jelly legs around it. Cock worship is the act of adoring the male sex organ, losing control of your inhibitions by worshipping it by drooling, licking it, kissing it, begging for it and turning into a quivering mess, all in desperation for the cock.

Do I Care About The Size Of Your Cock?

As I said before, if your cock is worthy then I want to worship it. I have worshipped big cocks, small cocks and in between cocks, its all dependent on how much I like them, what I think of them and how well they do in my dungeon. I know a lot of people are the same, the size doesn’t matter too much it’s just how you use it and their own personal reasons for wanting to worship it. Of course, some people get off on the size and want to worship it for being so big but others want too for how well it pleases them or for just how much they love it.

How horny am I?

When I am cock worshipping I make sure I am very horny. I like to make myself into a drooling mess and seeing that cock needs to make me weak at the knees. I am always so desperate to get that cock into my mouth, to pleasure it and make it mine. I also know other people that engage in cock worship, they will push the cock inside of themselves, let the cock feel how wet they are and drive themselves wild with the thought of the cock inside of them.

What’s My Favorite Cock To Worship (Size, Thickness, and Color)?

If you are my type, funny, cute, obedient in my dungeon and of course, worthy and you have a good penis. Then you’re so special and you get my undivided attention. My favorite type of cock to worship is:

Between 4-6 inches and a medium girth, but I do deeply enjoy larger men who are 6 inches plus too.

If you come to my dungeon and your cock is like this and you’re obedient, do as I say and allow me to dominate you however I wish then me dominating your cock once in a while is a given. I just love it.

5 Ways I Will Worship Your Cock

Once your cock is in front of me and I have decided it is mine to worship I have 5 things that I love to do. Every cock is different and every single one has different techniques that it loves but these are the things that I do to make your cock feel special and wanted by me.

Use My Mouth To Milk Your Cock

There won’t be a drop leftover once I use my mouth to milk and pleasure your cock. Slipping it inside of my wet, warm mouth your cock will feel my wet tongue, swirling around, desperate to please you. Your pre-cum will be licked up by me, I will moan as I taste it and thank you for sharing it with me. I will beg you to leak your pre-cum into my waiting mouth, I just want to taste your delicious nectar.

Cock Kisses Till You Cum

Kissing your cock, using my tongue and soft lips to make you feel good. Kissing it to show it how much I love it and caressing it with my tongue is all part of the worshipping process. I love taking your cock in my hands and just sending my sweet kisses up and down your shaft, showing your cock how much I love it and how happy I am that is in my hands and mouth. If you leak a little cum here, that’s ok, I will kiss it up and moan as I get to taste it again.

Caress And Massage Your Cock And Balls After A Long Day

Once I have given you all of the cocks kisses my heart desires I will move onto caressing and massaging your cock and balls. I will use my hands and mouth to make them feel so good and relaxed, sensually rubbing them, squeezing them and using my skills to make them feel like they are on a massage table all by themselves. I will make your cock and balls feel like the most important thing in the world, making sure they get every drop of pleasure from me that I can offer. My cock massage may make you leak some cum, but that’s ok, I will clean it up gladly with my tongue, I love your sweet juice.

Condoms, not for the cocks I really love

I usually make you wear a condom but not this time. I want to feel your cock as raw and as natural as possible. Discard your condom because I want you to be able to freely fill me with your seed and pleasure me with your shaft without the restriction of a condom. I love the taste, look and feel of you and I don’t want a condom to ruin that. If I am worshipping your cock, I want your cock not a piece of rubber.

Begging and whining and quivering for your cock

All I want is your cock, I don’t want anything else nor do I care about anything else. I will sit begging, whining and quivering in desperation for your cock, listen to me moan and grunt, in awe. Anguishing for your cock, hopeless and despairing to touch it and have it inside of me and in my hands. All I want at that moment is to see it, touch it and please it. My life’s goal at that moment is to make your cock happy, all I want is your delicious member near me.

I Won’t Be Able To Stop Drooling

Drooling is a habit of mine when I have my lips pursed over your cock, my dribble falls from my lips and onto your cock and I can’t help but use it as lube. Seeing your cock and having it so near to me makes me lose control and has me drooling like you wouldn’t believe. Is that ok? I hope so, all I want to do is make you and your cock happy.

Don’t Ask Me To Stop

I turn into a wet mess when presented with a nice cock. Wet like you wouldn’t believe, between my legs it’s sticky and hot.
I hate thinking of it being over. I hate knowing you may cum and then you no longer want me to worship it, that’s why I like to kiss it, prolonging your need to orgasm.
But I do love making a cock cum, seeing your seed seep out of the tip and feeling my tongue swirl around, lapping it all up. Knowing I made your cock so happy that it wanted to cum makes me very happy but I am still sad it’s over.
Please be ready to cum a few times… If not
Once I’m in the moment, I will deeply suck, lick and caress your cock using my mouth and I will massage your cock using every part of my body.
I take my time and I enjoy every second.

It’s Not About Pleasuring You, It’s About Pleasuring Your Cock

Sorry, but it is. I like you but your cock means more to me, I want to make that happy. Your happiness is great but it’s your cock that impressed me and that’s the thing I am here for. If I can make you and your cock happy, great but I respond to him and only him. If he likes something I will keep at it.

Knowing I am making your cock have the best day of its life, submitting myself to it and ensuring it cums hard, means my job here was done. I am a dominatrix so submitting myself to your cock is an honor, one that shouldn’t be overlooked and one that is always, always appreciated.

How Does It Feel For Me To Worship Your Big Dick?

I will bring you into my dungeon, the same place you have been coming to for a while now. Into a back room where I have a couch and a bed, you have never been in here before.

I am dressed in cute lingerie, something you rarely see me in. You get undressed and I get started. I can’t quite believe this is happening, I am so excited to see your cock. This time I get to please it rather than dominating it, I get to give it the attention it deserves and the love that it needs.

I get on my hands and knees and marvel at your cock, taking it into my hands and loving it. Using my mouth to take some of it and then my hands to feel it and squeeze it. You will hear my moans, marvels, and compliments as I touch your cock and try to be nice and slow, taking it all in.

I lick up your pre-cum and tell you all about how delicious it tastes. I am soaking wet, I tell you how wet you are making me. I move my hands to your cock and start massaging it as you lay down, squeezing your balls and taking some oil to make your cock feel as if it’s in a spa. After my extensive massage, your cock is quite excited to cum so I kiss it, telling it how great it is and telling you how lucky I am to have such a beautiful cock in front of me. Your cock loves being kissed by me, some of my kisses use my tongue, some of them don’t.

I gently lick the tip of your penis, licking up your juices and enjoying every drop it gives me. I then decide if I am going to let you cum in my mouth or on my face so that I can lick it off. What do you want me to do?

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So, You Have A Special Cock (Tell Me Your Size in the comments)?

I want you to tell me all about your cock and why it’s so special, why should it be considered by me? Has it been good enough? Have you been a good boy in my dungeon? Tell me all about your cock, the size, girth and what it can do in the comments below. I can’t wait to hear from you.

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So, You Want To Try Anal Fisting?

If you’re serious about this, it’s definitely something I can help you with. It’s simple, I am here to show you how to fist and how to get fisted. It’s easy and once you get the hang of it, it’s f**king orgasmic, as well as a cool party trick (I see all you cam boys and girls out there).

Good News! I Love Fisting

I love it and I’m going to show you exactly how whilst sharing with you my fisting experiences. I love getting my fist inside of someone and seeing their hole stretch, pleasuring them like never before and feeling their hole tighten around me. It’s a great feeling and one that is often overlooked.

What Should Good Anal Fisting Feel Like?

Before we start it’s good to know what it should feel like and how to avoid injury (I’ll tell you more about injury below). Good fisting should feel good, yes there is some stretch but it shouldn’t feel like it’s tearing, it shouldn’t be painful and it shouldn’t feel like a big, big struggle.

With good fisting, you need to be very, very relaxed and there should be a little stretch, it should feel ‘full’ inside, you will feel a little pressure but a nice pressure, not an unbearable pressure, it should feel pleasurable and like an achievement. Never painful.

Time To Start Fisting (How To)

Follow my guide and learn exactly how to fist someone, whether you’re a receiver looking for tips for your top or if you’re giver looking to give your sub some fisting love, this will help. If you have any questions or anything I haven’t covered that you want to know about, just leave your comments in the section below.

I Start By Preparing You For My Fist

This is so important, sometimes people forget how important it is to actually have a prepped fist. Obviously, before fisting, most people have had a bowel movement, an enema and are generally groomed and clean down there but people tend to disregard the actual fist.

• Firstly, ensure your hand is totally clean. Really get in there and clean under your nails and inside each crevice. You do not want to be spreading any nasty bacteria. You can also wear doctors gloves if you prefer or if you are with a new partner, however, it is still important that your hand is clean, glove or not.
• Make sure to not forget to cut and file your nails, it will cause issues if you leave them long or with spikey bits so really take your time on filing them and keeping them nice and short. Check and check again that you have got any bits that may be sticking out or rough.
• I like to wax my hands so that they are nice and smooth, removing the small bits of hair from my forearms and fingers. This isn’t essential but it makes me feel good and it does make my arm smoother for insertion.

Then I get one of my special toys…

My Collection Of Anal Fisting Toys (Beginner To Advanced)

Before I begin to insert my fist I like to use some sex toys to really prep the ass or vagina. I find giving the person an orgasm and really relaxing and naturally lubricating the area makes it so much easier for when the fist comes later. Really focus on teasing the area, getting the person all worked up and giving them an orgasm or two. Below is my collection of the sex toys I like to use when prepping my little plaything.

Anal Kit (Beginner-Advanced – Amazing)

This kit is amazing to start off with, it gives you everything you will need to get started with backdoor action. Featuring 5 butt plugs all increasing in size, you can tease and test your ass in stages. These butt plugs are easy to insert, a flared base so that they don’t ride up inside of you and they are perfect for beginners all the way to more advanced anal angels. Even if you are a pro at fisting, opening up your ass and teasing it is still very important as the muscles do contract back to normal after play and do need slowly opening up again next time around.

Anal Dildo (Beginner):

Measuring in at 7-inches with a girth of 4.75 inches, this beginner anal dildo can be secured onto any flat surface or in a harness to really prep your ass or vagina for fisting pleasure. Ride this dildo and open up your little hole, enjoy the pleasure and where possible try and get yourself or your partner to an orgasm, as it really, really loosens them up. It’s a great dildo as it can be used solo or with a partner, which is exactly what I love from a dildo like this one. I can leave my clients riding it whilst I busy myself with other things.

Long Suction Cup Dildo (Intermediate): Perfect for getting used to deep play

In order to really get my clients used to some deep play and to really try and warm up their holes, I use this extra long dildo. It has an insertable length of 10-inches and it can be used hands-free or in a harness so depending on them you can have some pretty diverse play. It’s a realistic-looking dildo, which really adds something and if you’re like my clients, you will love the feeling of taking something so big.

Inflatable Butt Plug (Beginner-Intermediate)

Using an inflatable butt plug is the ideal way to really experience the ‘stretched out’ sensation. You insert the butt plug as you would normally and then you use the attached pump to inflate the butt plug to your desired size. It’s easy to deflate and it’s a great way to test your boundaries and really get your ass ready and prepped for fisting.

Inflatable Anal Dildo (Intermediate):

Just like the butt plug above this inflatable penis butt plug does essentially the same thing. However, if you prefer the shape and feel of a penis and you’re looking for something a little longer, this inflatable dildo allows you to insert it and then inflate, deflating only when you wish and pumping size into the dildo to increase pleasure and stretching sensations.

Large Butt Plug (Advanced) :

This is a large butt plug for those who don’t need as much teasing and warming up before fisting begins. This butt plug measures a delicious 7-inches, it’s rippled for extra pleasure and it is flared so it won’t ride up inside of you. It’s perfect to really get the juices flowing and teasing your ass into submission before my fist decides it wants a turn with you.

Large Anal Beads (Advanced):

These large anal beads are not for the inexperienced among us, these beads are to be mastered. They provide your ass with one hell of a workout and give you a nice taster into the fisting sensations. They are to be lubed up at all times and guided in slowly, the ring pull allows for easy retrieval, although once they’re in I can’t guarantee you will want them out once you feel how good they feel.

Thick Cock (Advanced):

With 7-inches in length to insert and an incredible 10-girth this thick, realistic cock is a challenge even for those used to stretching open their holes. It can be used hands-free or in a harness, making it ideal for couples. It’s a real challenge to master but this big cock sure is one to be remembered.

Getting My Trusty Anal Lube (Boy Butter)

Boy Butter: Amazing for fisting, this lube is non-drying, silky smooth, non-tacky and it lasts. You only need a small amount, the consistency is so smooth, it doesn’t dry up into anything and it lasts during any type of play. I love it for fisting as it coats my hand and wrist nicely without being tacky and it allows my hand to glide into the ass.
Anal Jelly: The thick texture of this jelly allows sex toys, cocks and hands to glide in, it’s made from high-quality ingredients that offer you a smooth entry, giving you the best outcome for your fisting adventures. However, you can’t use this jelly with latex condoms or latex sex toys as it is oil-based.

Warming Up Your Asshole

Warming up your ass is the key factor in ensuring your fisting goes to plan. It’s so important and I can’t emphasize enough how warmed up you have to be.

I like to make my clients cum a few times, use my fingers, smaller toys, larger toys and even leaving a butt plug in during foreplay is ideal. Even if you are fisting yourself make sure you are warmed up, get nice and naturally lubricated, orgasm a few times, play with yourself and really try and relax.

Are you ready for my fist?

Once I have used a few smaller toys I will move on to the medium and larger sized sex toys. Such as this medium-sized butt plug and this larger dildo that I mentioned above.

Once I have played with you with these sex toys for a little while it will finally be time to move on when I think you are nice and relaxed and ready for my fist.

Finally, You’re Ready For My Fist

I start slow, always. I start with sharp shallow thrusts with just a few of my fingers in a  ducks head, like a shadow puppet. I slowly inch my fingers inside, slowing thrusting in and out of the ass, you do not want to poke here or make a fist, that’s when you’re actually inside. You want to slowly ease your way in with your ducks head shape fingers, move your whole arm, reframe from poking motion, instead you want slow, strong thrusts, that are not deep.

Inch your way in slowly, rotate your hand from side to side whilst still keeping your hands in a ducks head shape. Slowly does it and eventually, I will find my whole fist inside of your ass, that’s when you can create a fist to really please them.

You can also try a fisting glove, it stops issues with sharp nails and other things that can cause tearing. Some people also prefer them for roleplay reasons and others just prefer not to get their hand in there and use a glove instead.

Pop! My Fist Is Deep Inside

Once I am fully inside, I create a fist with my hand and start with deep, strong thrusts, Not just in and out, I stimulate the P-spot by putting pressure on it with each thrust. This pressure it was creates the pleasure and the orgasms. If you are fisting a woman this also stimulates her ass if you are inside of her vagina.

I am still careful when inside, ensuring the hole is nice and lubricated and I am listening to their body. Calculated thrusts make for an exciting time for my clients.

Extreme Fisting?

If extreme fisting is more of your thing, it’s useful to know that some people sometimes fist with two hands and use seriously large toys (larger than hands). These people work themselves up to that level, you cannot go straight in with extreme fisting, you must be patient and cautious.

Always know your limits, understand there can be risks with large toys. Especially if you are new to fisting. Also, a quick word of warning to never use a toy that isn’t meant for anal sex (stuff gets lost really quick, always look for a flared base or a ring pull.

Questions I Get About Fisting

Below I am going to answer some of the most common questions I get about fisting, I get these from clients and from people reading my blog and sending them in so if you have any questions that haven’t been answered here feel free to leave them in the comments below and I will back to you.

Can You Use Your Own Hand?

Yes, of course, you can, it’s where most people start. It’s how people discover they may enjoy fisting. When using your own hand, ensure it’s clean and use plenty of lube. Test different positions as different positions feel better for different people. Experiment with yourself and test your own boundaries.

Is There A Difference Between Female/Male Fisting?

Not particularly. I find men have a deeper anus to explore and they do tend to cum a lot quicker than women as you can focus directly on the P-spot but with women, you have the G-spot stimulation and the combined vaginal/anal stimulation to play with. Both are fun to fist and there’s not a whole lot of difference.

Does Practice Make Perfect?

Absolutely it does. It can be hard to jump into it and get it right the first time. With fisting, the best angle to take is to start slowly, stretch your butt, get it used to play and get it used to taking larger sex toys and fingers. Really learn your boundaries and experiment with different sizes. Get your butt used to play and remember to relax and breathe.

Will My Butt Go Back To Normal?

Yes, just like the vagina. Your butt muscles naturally retract back into place. You may feel constipated the day afterward and some people have said they notice their poop to be bigger for a while but that’s the only real thing people notice. Obviously, if you tear or prolapse you’re going to have issues but if you’re careful and take precautions you will be fine.

My Fist Just Won’t Fit?

If your fist won’t fit into your vagina, this may be because vaginas do have a wall that will eventually stop you from inserting any more. Your butt doesn’t have this wall so you should be able to take a whole lot more. Your ass is able to be stretched, you just got to relax and take your time. Use inflatable anal butt plugs and dildos, they are amazing for slowly stretching, spend a lot of time warming up. Get a butt plug set (small to large) and play with them too. You will get there!

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So, You Want To Get Trampled By Me?

It’s an honor for me to trample you, I hope you are fully aware of that? I don’t just trample anybody, I have to want to punish you and you seem just my type.
Just so that YOU know what you’re dealing I am 5’3, I weigh 130 pounds and my feet are a US size 5. Is that ok with you? It doesn’t matter if it isn’t. I am going to trample you anyway and you’re going to love it, aren’t you? Feeling my shoes all over you, hurting you. My ass squashing your face, my feet too! It’s going to be so much fun.

Just To Make Sure, You Know What Trampling Is?

I want to be sure you know what you’re getting yourself in for. You seem way to eager. Trampling can be said that it comes from an extreme foot fetish, it’s the act of walking over someone’s body, especially focusing on their genitals and face. People wear high heels normally but some people also like to wear other forms of footwear such as sneakers or boots and even barefoot at times.

The person being trampled gets sexual pleasure from this act, they enjoy the pain and humiliation of it. Trampling can also include facesitting, punching, beating, and suffocation. As you can see, it’s not for the faint-hearted and it must be done by someone who knows what they are doing, it’s very important that you know your own limits and that you have a good accommodating conversation and you are constantly checking on your partner. If you’re new to trampling you want your dom to use one foot at a time, whilst supporting their weight with a bar, if your dom wants to go straight in with both feet, they are not a good dom. You want to start slow and build up your tolerance and always ensure your safety.

Cute! You Want The Pain And Humiliation?

If you’re ready, let’s get into it! You really want me to walk all over your body? You want the pain and humiliation that trampling is going to bring? You want me to bust your balls with my heels? Great!

What’s your safe word? Ok great! Thanks for telling me. Remember to use it if you can’t take any more, I am serious about trampling and you don’t look like the type that can take a lot from me or am I wrong? Can you take a lot from my feet? Let’s just see, shall we?

Let’s Pick The Right Footwear

The right footwear will make my experience even better so which would you like to use? Take your pick from my assortment below. Most of the men that I play with enjoy heels, that’s the most common, they love the feeling of the heel going into their skin, specifically their stomach, penis and even face.

• My cute red High heels
• My thigh high heels
• Boots
• Vans or converse
• Barefeet

Which did you pick? Let me know in the comments below.

What Shall I Wear?

Before you come into my dungeon you’re going to pick what I will be wearing. These are my most requested attires but of course if you anything you want me to wear that’s not on this list, let me know in the comments down below.

• My Favorite Lingerie
• Short skirt (panties on or off)?
• Maybe I’ll wear my bitch skirt (latex, with tights)
• Maybe naked if I feel like it…

Let me see if you deserve to actually choose what I wear first, I need to know if you’re even worthy to have what you want. After all, I am in charge here, not you.

The Trampling Starts Now (Guide, Experience And Story)!

Are you ready to begin? Actually, it doesn’t matter if you’re not because I am going to begin anyway. Follow my instructions, do exactly as I say and submit to me and my feet. I am going to treat you the way you deserve to be treated, you are mine now and until you leave this dungeon.

Lay The f**k Down, You’re My Bitch Now

Lay down on my bed. You’re my bitch now and I will treat you as my doormat, something worthless that needs to be trodden on and shown who is boss. You will do as I say and you will not complain, you will enjoy having my feet all over you, squashing your balls, your face, and your entire body.

Starting On My Bed

I like to slip something over your head, something like this hood. Once it’s on I will stand on my bed and slowly ease my feet onto you. Wearing my favorite heels I will trample up and down your body, ensuring my heels are digging into your skin. You will moan with pleasure as I move around and even dance at some points. Slowly I will make my way down to your groin and push my heels into your crotch all whilst giggling, busting your balls with my heels and you are going to love it.

I got tired and I need to sit, guess your face will do

All of that walking is tiring work! Phew! I need to relax for a minute, I guess your face is the comfiest option. I will sit down right there, on your face, playing on my phone and moving around to get myself comfy. I look back and see that your boner is raging, you like this don’t you? You dirty boy.

Moving To The Floor

You look too comfy there on my bed, let’s get you onto the floor. There we go, nice and easy. Great! You look much better on the floor honey. I won’t be a moment, I just have to get something.

Getting My Chair

I am going to start again, with a chair this time and see how much your weak body can take. I doubt you’re going to withstand it for long but we can try. I push the chair legs into you, making you moan and I know you are desperate for me and my feet but I won’t remove it until I want too, not you.

Walking All Over Your Belly

Now it’s time to say goodbye to the chair, I am going to use your body to walk on, I am in the mood for some exercise. Up and down I walk, pacing up and down your body, crushing your balls and penis, your face, chest, and legs as I go. Steadying myself on the nearby bar. I am loving this, you look like you are too. The marks on your body and the size of your erection speak volumes.

Dancing On Your Weak Body

As I am walking up and down your body in my heels, I start to dance, wiggling my body, moving my hips from side to side. The pain increases as I make sporadic movements, dancing to my own tune. I move up and down your body, wiggling, shaking and enjoying showing off my dance moves.

Don’t Look At Me (Face Trample)

Oh, you’re looking at me through your hood? Well stop it, I don’t want you looking at me. I make my way to your face, removing my foot from my heel and pressing down hard on your face, squishing and trampling you. Your face is to one side as I press my feet down, telling you off for looking at me. I am feeling a little tired again now, I need to sit down on your face again. Squashing you beneath me, I love hearing your little cries.

I Can Feel Your finger Underneath My Heels, ow no, wait that’s your cock?

I am back on your body now with my heels on and as I am walking up and down your body, I can feel your finger pressing against my heels, I wonder if it’s too much for you to bear? That’s when I notice your hands are by your side and actually it’s your cock I am feeling under my shoes. You must be so excited by this to have an erection but…it feels small? Are you sure that’s your cock?

Get Naked, OMG Is That It? It’s Still So Small!

Get undressed for me, I want to walk all over your fully naked body. Oh, that makes you hard when I said that? haha, omg, it looks like you’re about to cum. Your cock is throbbing, or is that your thumb? It looks happy to see me and if you say that’s your cock then I believe you.

I Don’t Want You Looking At Me

I have told you, again and again, I don’t want your eyes on me, I am enjoying myself here and I don’t want you ogling me. Keep this hood on, I am bored of looking at you and I want you to keep yourself to yourself.
If I catch you looking at me I will trample your balls, not stopping until I know you are about to stop me.

I’m Tired (Sitting on your throat)

On Your Hands and knees, I need to sit and have a rest. I will put my whole weight and body on your back as I sit on you and use you like a bench. I need to do something on my phone so stay still as you take my weight or there will be punishments.

Lay back down! I want to sit on your throat/face while I check my emails. Do not move or wriggle, I need you to be still. You will take my whole body weight on your chest, neck, and face as I check my emails and reply to some clients. Shall I let them know what I am doing right now? Sitting on your face? Having your erection bulging in front of me as I mindlessly scroll through my phone and use your chest and neck as a sitting area?

Are We Done?

Nope! You forgot to kiss my poor mistress feet, they’ve been working hard, I never want to ask you to remember something again, Okay?

Kiss them all better, suck on them and kiss all of the pain away from wearing these silly heels. I want them to feel precious and special.

Do You Need Help Trampling Your Partner?

If you want some tips on trampling your partner I have left a little guide below, however, make sure to always be really careful, listen to them and never put your full weight onto their body, have a support to hold you up and try one foot at a time until you both get used to it. Always have a safe word and even try back trampling first to get used to the feel and the pressure on their body.

• Warm up their body (don’t just stomp), make them horny and relax their muscles with a nice massage or some foreplay.

• Have something to hold onto (till you really know what you’re doing), use a shelf or anything that can hold your weight, hold onto it as you use one foot on their body.

• Don’t just stomp anywhere, learn what they like. Some men hate ball trampling, some men love it, so be careful and listen to what they want.

• Know how to put pressure on your play toy, you can’t just jump around like a fool, you have to know how to put your pressure on your partner. Do it slowly and with one foot at a time.

• Know what areas to avoid (again it’s not about avoiding, it’s about knowing the right amount of pressure)

• Wear the right outfit, I make sure my client picks the outfit for me, choosing what they like best so with your partner ask them if they want you to be casual, dressed up or even in a costume.

• The key to a good trampling session for me is to be a bitch. I will slap him, manhandle him and be rude to him during a trampling session, he loves it and it makes the experience better for him. (Check your partner wants this first).

• Ignoring him and his pleas are something I often do, he has to use the safeword if he really wants me to stop what I am doing. If he asks me to do anything sexual I will laugh at him and just make him feel generally quite small and inadequate.

• He is nothing, just flooring, I only talk to let him know that. He is just the floor beneath me perfect feet and he has to know that.

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I Love Using Duct Tape To Restrain During Sex

I love the feel of the tape on my skin or on a client’s skin. The sound it makes as I unpeel it from its roll, securing my client’s hands or feet with the tape and sometimes adding a strip across their mouth for good measure.

I find BDSM tape to be easy to use, it has a lot of possibilities and what you can secure your partner too is virtually endless. I like to use duct tape on clients who prefer less intense restraint and if I am introducing them into the BDSM world. I like to ease them in and the duct tape is non-intimidating and easy for them to work with, especially if they’re not sure what they want to be restrained or how restricted they actually want to be.

When it comes to my private life and me using duct tape, I love it to be around my wrists, ankles and across my mouth, I like to feel totally restricted and inhibited, it’s a primal feeling that I get when I am so vulnerable with a partner and I love it.

Why Using Tape During Sex Is Amazing

There’s so much to it, I feel like it’s quite an underrated sex accessory. Sex tape should be used by everyone at least once. Whenever somebody new comes into my dungeon and I use duct tape on them, they are always thrilled and it’s always the first time they have used it.

• The sensation – The sensation of it being wrapped around your wrists or ankles is delightful, it feels tight with some pulling which restricts your movements but it feels comfortable and one quick snip and it can be off in seconds.
• Pulling it off when someone has been naughty – When one of my clients has been bad, I like to rip it off of their skin, it makes them moan and they usually learn their lesson.
• The restraint effect – BDSM tape offers restraint without the intimidation or need for locks and keys. If you buy a good quality kind, it will be durable and able to withstand rough play. It limits your movement and looks very provocative.
• It’s so easy to use, there’s not really much skill that goes into it, just a few base guidelines you should follow.
• Do you want to be tied to the bedpost? no problem. Do you want me to restrain your legs? easy. Do you want to use handcuffs? Instant.

The BDSM Tape I Use

I have included below all of the BDSM tapes that I use on a regular basis when you’re looking, make sure to check for self-adhesive tape, that’s the best to use. I hope you enjoy looking through my collection. If you have any questions please just leave them in the comment section below.

Duct Tape (vet wrap):

Make sure that you avoid duct tape, it leaves behind lots of glue residue. This stuff is a little kinder on the skin, it’s made for animals and humans, it doesn’t pull on the hair and it will restrain your partner easily whilst still allowing them an easy escape route, especially if you are both new to tape or restriction play. It’s easy to use and comes in bulk too, so you can be sure you always have some on hand.

Special BDSM Tape (My Favorite)

I LOVE this tape, it’s reusable, a great price and you get 20m of tape to play with. It doesn’t leave any residue on the skin, the black latex appearance gives this tape unique bondage feel to it. It’s a strong tape, it can withstand a hell of a lot and it sticks to itself. You can use it for restraint purposes, to make lingerie, blindfolds, mouth mufflers, and more, you just need a little imagination.

Amazon Option (I know everyone loves amazon)

This tape comes in four different colors, it measures 35′ and it’s ideal for all sorts of tape lovers, no matter your experience. It’s easy to use, non-sticky, it keeps your sub in check and it’s a doddle to play with. The width of the tape is 2”, ideal for most people and for what most people are looking for.

Safety Shears (Must Own)

I always make sure to have these safety shears to hand when I am playing with bondage tape, it’s so important to be able to get your partner out a situation quickly. With other types of restraints, they are usually fastened or locked so you can release them quickly with tape it can be a little trickier. Using these shears you can cut through the tape easily and safely.

How I Use Tape During Sex

For personal use I like to use my tape as a restraint, ensuring the person I am with secures it around my ankles, wrists and across my mouth. I enjoy the sensation of it, the way it feels on my skin and how it feels when it’s being removed. It’s a very erotic experience and I enjoy the restriction of the tape, it feels very sensual and I just adore using tape during sex.

How I Use My BDSM Tape The Dominatrix Way

When I am in my dungeon, using BDSM tape on clients, I do things a little differently. I am a dominatrix after all and I like to make the experience one to remember. Below I am going to outline the things that I do to my clients when we are using tape. If you want to learn just how it’s done, read on.

Restraint Positions (What To Tape)

Restraining with bondage tape is a lot easier than people think. You can look at any restraint online and you can replicate with tape and maybe some BDSM rope if you really need it.

Here are just some ideas of tape restraint:

• Handcuffs
• Legcuffs
• Hostage (chair), tie the tape about their chest, wrists behind the chair, legs taped to the chair.
• Wrists to Legs, on their back, tie the person’s ankles to their wrists, so that they are open and ready for you.
• Spreader bar with hands taped to it
• Restrain hands to headboard with tape

Restraining To Objects

I like to use the objects around me to aid me in restraining my clients. I will use things from poles to posts, using the tape to restrain them into place and make use of the things in my dungeon. However, if you’re at home here are a few things you can use as a makeshift base:

• Headboard
• Chairs
• Their own body
• Leg of furniture
• Sunbed

Roleplay

Roleplay is another big reason people like to your tape, some people like to get a chair, restrain their ‘hostage’ with tape and play with them. Some enjoy the idea of catching a thief and being a good cop by restraining them before the backup arrives.

Other things people like to do is roleplay being in a dominatrix dungeon, in a sticky situation at work and the list goes on. Your imagination is the only thing stopping you.

Making Too Much Noise

I love having my mouth restrained with the tape, cutting off a small strip and placing it across my mouth is wonderful for me. I do it to my clients too, when they are being too noisy I like to make them hush by slipping a piece of tape over their mouths, seeing their eyes light up is always a pleasure and stifling their moans feels great.

Using the vet tape that I mentioned above is the safest to use due to it not being porous, however for a short amount of time I do use my other tapes too but if it’s going to be a prolonged session the vet tape is your best bet.

Be very careful to not block both airways (nose and mouth) and always keep fabric away from the nose when the mouth is restrained with tape, it’s up to you to check on and look after your partner in this vulnerable state. Ensure they can breathe and ensure you have a code you can use if they aren’t feeling too good.

Pulling It Off, moving and add tension

I LOVE the sensation of removing the tape, it’s just as fun as putting it on for me. The tension of the material pulling away from the skin feels great and if it’s peeled off quickly it awakens your senses, making you moan as your nerve endings are awoken into action.

When I have tape on someone I like to play around with this, pulling on the tape, creating tension between the skin, ripping it off their mouth and putting it back again, placing it down hard, pulling it as tightly as it will go. You can enjoy a lot of sensory play with tape without even really realizing it.

Add Blindfold

I like to always add a blindfold into the mix, having my client restrained, gagged and having their mouth taped up and then being blindfolded is like giving up every ounce of control you have. I like to use this blindfold, it provides total darkness and allows you to really let go of your inhibitions as you are punished by having your sight removed from you temporarily. Your senses are heightened instantly and it makes everything feel a whole lot more intense.

Sex Toy Torture

Using a sex toy to essentially ‘torture’ your partner who is restricted by the BDSM tape is what we professionals do and it is mastery at the next level.
Restrain their hands and legs and then tape a sex toy in place to stimulate their Cock/Pussy/Ass, once you’re satisfied with its position, turn it on and watch them have orgasms again and again and again.

If you want to be more involved you can always use the sex toy on them as they are bound by the bondage tape as they act just how restraints do. Have them all tied up with tape and get their favorite toy on their most sensitive area, stimulating them and making them cum endlessly.

Add Rope

Adding rope as well as using bondage tape is a match made in heaven. By using the added rope you can ensure complete sturdiness, you can try out breast bondage and rope bondage and it allows you to focus less on the restraint aspect of the tape and more the sensory side of it. This is my favorite bondage rope to use. Check out this rope guide.

Check Out R/Tapebondage

I definitely recommend checking out this subreddit, it’s filled with ideas, advice, and tips on how to use bondage tape and it will allow you to really get some ideas on how it’s done visually and it will get you in the mood. If you have any tips you would like to share just leave them ion the comments below, I love hearing from you.

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What Is Puppy Play?

Puppy play is a certain kink where the beta (submissive) is the puppy, wearing dog masks, paws, tails, collars and more to show off their status as a puppy. The puppy is cared for by the Alpha (dominant) who treats them as their puppy, scratching them, training them, reprimanding them and often sexually pleasuring them.

Puppy play can be done alone, by the puppy, this is where the puppy will wear their accessories around their homes or out discreetly in public, going to events and meet-ups for other puppies or puppy play is done in groups of two or more where the puppy is cared for by a master and is unable to do anything the master doesn’t allow them to do, much like a real dog. People who enjoy being a puppy often enjoy getting away from being themselves, having a totally different persona and letting themselves be totally free.

Dogs tend to sleep all day, eat from the floor, defecate when told too, dogs also are rewarded for being good and punished for being bad and people that enjoy puppy play often bring this into their own existence.

Puppy play is a lot different from being a furry and should not be put into the same category as someone who enjoys furry play.

I’m An Owner To Lots Of Puppies, Dogs, Alphas And Omegas

I am a professional dominatrix and therefore I am a master (handler) to many puppies. They all obey me and do as I say, they ask me to train them and care for them when they are inside of my dungeon and even some of them ask me to care for them and be there master outside of my dungeon.
If you are looking into puppy play, it is likely you will be your puppies only master or if you’re a pup, you will only have one master. It takes a lot to trust someone enough to give you such satisfaction and such respect, so choose your master wisely and care for your puppy appropriately, I didn’t become an owner of so many good puppies by not caring about my little pups.

What It’s Like Being My Pet (Story Time)?

Being my little pup is a very rewarding exchange. Give me the keys to your submission and you can be free in my dungeon. Slip-on your puppy mask, insert your little butt plug, make sure you remember the paws! and with that, you are free to play down here.

I demand good behavior, no climbing on any of the surfaces, no incessant whining or barking, no disobeying me and most importantly doing everything you are told by me, your handler.

When you’re my pet I will expect you to look your best and if you don’t, expect me to groom you. I love to make my little puppy happy so expect plenty of treats and plenty of pleasure, for when you’re good. When you’re bad, I am sorry, but puppies need to learn and I will punish you however I see fit. Some puppies get a quick spank, others get taught a lesson with their little pup cock.

The type of puppy you are you can tell me all about before coming to my dungeon, that way I know the type of handler I have to be. Some puppies of mine just love to be stroked, trained and allowed to play, other puppies of mine enjoy being punished and being given sexual pleasure.

Being my puppy requires a lot of trust and respect from both me and my pup.

Letting My Dog Socialize

I do let some of my more obedient pups socialize, I let them meet up with other pups at special meetups, there they can play with other puppies and get to interact. The handlers are also free to attend and socialize too, sharing tips and advice on how best to care for their puppy.

A lot of my pups go alone to these events, wearing a collar etched with my name and number on it, however, some of my pups do need me to attend with them and from there I can keep an eye on them and ensure they are on their best behavior.

I also host meet up’s inside my dungeon, small gatherings for handlers and pups to come too, getting to play down there with their masters and meeting other pups. I think it’s important to let my dogs socialize, nobody likes to see a puppy lonely.

Teasing My Poor Little Pet

If I am feeling a little cruel I like to tease my little pups, making them howl and grown, moan and bark at me. Teasing them by not giving them attention or if they are my sexual pups by not allowing them the release they so desperately need until I feel like it.

Breeding My Dogs

My pets all have different preferences, if them preferences match up and the other owner agrees, then we let the breeding happen.
Some of my alphas breed with all the females, others will only breed with males and vice versa (depending on their sexuality).

We make sure our pets are comfortable with the breeding process before we allow them near one another, you know what horny dogs are like.

Playing Alone With My Dog

A lot of pets prefer playing alone in my dungeon, sometimes with the exception of another dog. They enjoy cuddles, feeding and being told off when they are naughty. We play ball games and sexual games (if they are that way inclined).

My Puppy Play Toys, Wear And Equipment

I have a lot of puppy play toys, equipment and things they can wear. It is essential as a handler to have everything my pup may need and that’s what makes me a great handler. I listen to their needs, buy them gifts and ensure that their need to explore the puppy play kink is excelled and fulfilled in every way.

Two-Toned Dog Hood (Boy Doggies)

A gorgeous dog hood that looks like Doberman, this hood has a zipped up mouth so you can lock it up and open it whenever you choose and it comes with a removable mouth gag that you can use when your pup is just being too noisy or when they need to be put in their place. This leather hood laces up comfortably at the back of the head and it comes with a collar along with an O-ring should you need to attach a leash to your pup. Ideal for serious pet play and those looking to make their pup feel right at home.

Leather Dog Hood With Muzzle, Bildfold, And Gag (Boy)

Heavy duty and able to provide you with an array of play options this dog hood is for those puppies that need a little more sexual pleasure. Complete with a removable blindfold and gag this animal hood will keep your pet fully submissive and at your mercy. With easy access to the mouth and the ability to attach a leash to the hood, this is a great option for your naughtiest of pups.

Cute K9 Hood And Muzzle

Ideal for the types of pups who enjoy more freedom. Some people don’t enjoy the confines of a hood and so this open hood and muzzle combination allows the pup to give you more facial expression and it allows them more movement in their face. The ears are completely removable and it comes with a gag, so you can quite your puppy down when needs be. It’s a cute beginner puppyhood and if your partner or client feels intimidated it’s a great place to start.

Bondage K9 Muzzle

Enjoy a firm yet comfortable fit with the non-locking buckles and the soft leather. This muzzle allows animal roleplay with more freedom, much like the muzzle above. It has a removable gag yet it still allows your puppy to show you their puppy dog eyes and pleading looks. A muzzle that’s ideal for all types of puppies, no matter your level. This type of muzzle is also preferred by pups who go to events in public.

Leather Puppy Paws (Unisex)

If your puppy likes to walk on all fours, these mitts are my go-to when they come to my dungeon. They have dog paw prints on the outside for traction and extra realism and they are adorned with high-quality leather. The mitts are lockable and can have a leash or other restraining devices attached to them.

Leather Collar With Spikes

A beautiful collar with shiny, menacing spikes, this spikey collar is worn by the most loyal or the most disobedient of puppies in my dungeon. If the wearer is good and loyal, they won’t let the menacing look of this collar go to their head, if they are a puppy that needs training, this spiked collar may lead them to believe they are in charge which is where a handler like me steps in and shows them just how to behave.

Collar For Alpha Dogs

Heavy-duty and made for dogs who know their place in the world, this spiked large leather collar, encompasses your pup’s whole neck and shows other pups who is in charge of them. Whilst your pup is loyal to you it doesn’t stop them from being the Alpha in a pack of dogs. Lockable and threatening, this collar is not for pups who are just beginning their training.

Spiked Leather Choker

The great thing about this leather choker is that it can be worn in public and it won’t arouse much suspicion. Have your pup wear it day to day and out in public when they are alone so that they are always reminded of their master and never stray too far. It can also be used in my dungeon as it does have the ability to attach a leash to it so it isn’t just a cute spikey accessory.

Training Leash And Collar

When your pup is still in puppy training this soft leash and collar is perfect. It is flexible, non-intimidating and ideal for pups who need a bit of obedience training before moving onto bigger things. Use it to guide your pup and teach them who is in charge here. When a new pup comes to me I always ensure I have a leash and collar to tame them with, they need to learn some new tricks first.

My Favorite Leash (Perfect For Any Type Of Dog)

Use this chain leash with most collars, restraints or cuffs. It’s perfect for any type of dog as it’s sturdy and the metallic chain link design is a subtle nod towards BDSM. It allows you to keep your pet close to you at all times, keep them under control and at a public event it shows dominance towards your pups and the others in the room. It’s also really affordable which often chain link leashes aren’t as the designer’s coin in on the whole BDSM aspect of them.

Knee Pads (A Must For Any Pup)

If your pup spends a lot of time on their knees then these luxury knee pads are a must-have. I don’t like to see my pups with bruised knees (unless they have been very naughty) and so I make sure they are comfortable, these pads are secured easily, they stay in place and they make it so your pup has more freedom to roam around and be themselves without causing any pain to their joints.

Silicone Puppy Tail (I love seeing it wag)

I love this puppy tail, it gives my doggies some internal pleasure as well as pleasing me, their handler, and making them look so cute. This tail stimulates them internally, I ask them to wag their little tail for me and the pleasure on their faces when the butt plug begins stimulating them is enough to make me melt inside.

Fluffy Tail Plug (For My Cuddly Dogs)

Some pups are naturally more loving and enjoy snuggles a lot more and this butt plug is for them. It’s fluffy, cute and fits their personalities well. The butt plug pleasures them and makes them feel so good and their cute little fluffy tail puts a big smile on my face. I love also when they feel the tail between their legs, some of them even go onto catch it like the silly pups that they are.

Training My Puppy To Play (BDSM Pet Play Guide)

I mentioned at the start that being a handler/owner is a very prestigious task, you have to know how to do it and what you are doing and so I have created a guide on how to get a new puppy and train it and care for it in the best way possible. If you have any questions feel free to leave them below and I will get back to you.

Finding Out What Type Of Dog I Have

When new pups come into my dungeon for the first time I make sure I get to know who they are as a pup and how they are to be treated. Just like real dogs, my pups all have different personalities, different wants, and different needs so it’s important to understand exactly how to train them and how to make sure their animal roleplay experience is as great as it possibly can be.

I need to find out if they are an aggressive pup, cute and snuggly, well-behaved, attention-seeking, testing, obedient, etc. All of my pups have different traits and so it’s up to me to find out how to best train them and care for them.

Naming My Dog (Getting A Collar)

Once my pup has submitted to be we have a very special moment where I name them, give them a collar and take ownership of them.

It’s a big deal and it means you now have a handler and someone to care for you. It’s a big moment and in my care, I will only take ownership once I know you are ready to submit to me and my training is working.

My Page Of Rules (teaching obedience)

I like to have a set of rules that we follow that way I can track my pup’s progress and ensure they are on the right track with me. Once they learn my ways, we can work together and be the best team possible.

Teaching Them New Tricks – I teach my pups new tricks, such as sit, stay, cuddle, all fours, wiggle, fetch, etc. Once we have mastered them all, we can move on.

The easy way (rewards and treats) – When they’re good and obedient and do as I say, that gets rewarded with cuddles, head scratches, pleasure, and treats. It pays to be good when I am your owner.

The hard way (spanking, restraint and telling off) – If my pup is naughty they get put in their place. This may be with punishments such as spanking, restraint and sexual punishments or it may be with my voice, I may shout at them and tell them off, restricting them from play and not letting them out of their cage.

Playing Together (Learning to kiss, lick each other clean and play well with others) – I make sure all of my pups, even the alphas, are well behaved in public. I ensure they play nicely, listen to my commands and no never to bite, scratch or hurt other pups or handlers.

Feeding My Dogs – I use this pet bowl to feed and water my pups, I fill it with treats and other delicious items when they are hungry or need a treat. It’s aesthetically pleasing and looks really cute in my dungeon.

Do My Pets Always Dress Up?

All pets are different. Sometimes I need them to be naked with just a collar and a leash, maybe a dog hood. Sometimes they will wear just a hood, sometimes they wear everything including paws, a tail, hood, ears, and briefs. It all depends on the pup and the type of day we are having. Some pups like to always be dressed up, it gives them more freedom to play around with the puppy play kink, others don’t care as much.

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Puppy Play Personals/Dating (Finding Others To Play With)

I have left below some great places where you can find other pups to play with, let me know how you get on!

• Alt.com
• Fetish.com
• R/PupPlay
• R/petplay
• Fetlife

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What Are Vampire Gloves?

If you are completely lost here and have literally no idea what a vampire glove could be, let me explain. A vampire glove is a glove used in BDSM play that is used for sensation play, there are small spikes (like little thorns) covering the glove which depending on how hard you press or grip feel like little delicate scratches or more sharp prangs. They stimulate the skin and provide you with little scratches that heighten sensitivity and feel almost ticklish at times.

Vampire gloves can be used for spanking, although you do need to be careful and take some precautions with this although I will go into more detail on that below. When spanking with a vampire glove it can cause small cuts, especially if the glove is particularly sharp. The spikes add a more intense element to spanking, which many people love.

You can also use vampire gloves for chastity play, with these on you will not be touching yourself, it’s the ultimate torture and it’s a great way to stop your sub from masturbating if you aren’t using a chastity device.

The Vampire Gloves I Use For Spanking And Sensation Play

These vampire gloves are beautifully made. 97 thin spikes line the leather of these gloves, press as gently or as roughly as you like and stimulate your subs senses. You may use these gloves for light spanking, controlling how hard your hand comes down and delivering shivering blows to your sub with the unforgiving spikes, you may also use these gloves to run your fingers across your subs body, stimulating every nerve ending and providing them with the garish sensation of being lightly scratched.

You may enjoy the sensation of being scratched, caressed and spanked, whatever you use your vampire gloves for, it’s time for you to enjoy and experience a new sensation.

I do want to give you a quick word of warning about using these gloves for spanking, yes it can be done and yes it feels great but if you are using your gloves with multiple partners do be cautionary as the spikes can cause bleeding if used too hard on the skin, cross-contamination is obviously not a great thing so if you are going to be using these gloves on multiple people I do recommend getting a couple of pairs and being very careful with not mixing them up.

My Chastity Vampire Gloves (Time To Lock You Up)

These chastity vampire gloves are great fun and when my sub is being a little too unruly I like to lock them up in these gloves and see how long they can take it for. I tease my client, making their cock wish it could be used, I have them beg for me for release and I just keep on denying.

Yes, they can use their hands, of course, they can but if they do they are met with a tingling scratch if they grip down, which I often instruct them to do, a row of sharp teeth will clamp down and the sensation will ripple through them and ensure they don’t forget to always obey me.

One of the greatest additions is the buckle, it allows you to lock the gloves in place so that they cannot escape even if they try. It’s a cute touch to these bondage-inspired gloves and I love them.

Experience hands-off chastity, where the only thing stopping your sub from experiencing pleasure is themselves, they are there for the taking but every touch is met with a sharp reminder of who they are and why they are locked up. I love using these gloves for chastity, it never fails to bring a smile to my dirty little face.

How I Use My Little BDSM Gloves

I thought I would go into a little more detail about how I use my vampire gloves so that you can see they are quite versatile and suit the needs of many individuals. I, of course, am a professional dominatrix so the way I use my gloves may not be the way you use yours but if you are looking for ways you can use your gloves and be more dominant, follow what I do and you can be just like me, except in the comfort of your own home.

Chastity:

I’m a keyholder (you can join my patreon here) and an owner to a lot of sissies, cucks, and men who are locked up. I use these gloves when the chastity comes off. Admittedly not all of my clients enjoy chastity devices and so for the men who enjoy the chastity devices and the ones who don’t, these gloves suit them all.

I make them watch me undress, wander around my dungeon half-naked, I masturbate using different toys right in front of them and I even rub my body parts over their cock to really get them riled up and even I so much as feel a finger on my body, I will punish them accordingly.

I never let them reach orgasm and they wouldn’t dare touch their cock with these vampire gloves on, they may be silly men but they aren’t crazy.

Using the vampire gloves for chastity purposes is one of my favorite and most popular ways to use them. I find it drives my clients wild, my sissies and my cucks love it, even if they don’t say so at the time. They always thank me afterward and I make sure they always go home with a little reminder of the gloves by marking them with one of the spikes, anywhere I choose on their bodies. Just a gentle reminder to behave and not touch themselves (if I am their keyholder).

Spanking:

When you’ve been naughty it’s time to show me your bare ass and that’s when these gloves come out to play. I make sure my clients are in a prime position, bent over and often secured in place with some restraints, that way they can’t wriggle away from me.

I will bring my hand down softly, gently spanking them, delivering small lashings of pain to their ass. If they are particularly out of line, I will bring my hand down harder, the spikes pierce their skin and sometimes they even draw blood, this is the more intense side of these gloves and it is for extreme play. I like to leave a mark and these gloves allow me to do that. I like my clients to go home, look in the mirror and catch glimpses of the pain I inflicted on them, that way they can get all hard and turned on again.

My sissies enjoy being spanked with these gloves and told just how worthless they are, they enjoy the pain and the pleasure they get once they are home and nursing their wounds.

I did mention this already but I do want you to be aware of the risks of cross-contaminating blood, it is always advised to use new gloves on different partners just to eliminate the risks.

Sensation Play:

Who doesn’t love sensation play? The easiest way to use these gloves in by using them to stimulate the senses and deliver sharp little tickles to your partner’s body. The men and women I’ve been with all love sensation play, having them lay naked, I play with hot wax, ticklers and vampire gloves, their goosebumps always rising for me and their bodies will be on edge and mixing this with a little blowjob/oral or a sex toy is game-changing.

Sensation play really allows you to play around with their bodies, bringing them to the edge of pain and pleasure, shocking their nerve-endings and bringing them in and out of reality.

Using vampire gloves to do this is easy, just gently run your fingers across their nipples, neck, shaft, stomach, arms and just about anywhere else. Lightly touch them and watch them shiver, press down harder and watch them moan.

Being On The Other Side Of My Sex Gloves

If you want to know what it’s like being on the other side of my sex gloves, let me just tell you. I will make you moan out in pleasure at things you didn’t even know turned you on.

Step into my dungeon, get undressed and prepare yourself as I slip these gloves on, especially bought for you. Show me your body and submit to me as I caress you with my gloves, paying no attention to your whimpers or pleas, I will bring you to the edge of an orgasm without even touching your cock, does that sound OK?

You will be at the mercy of me and my sex gloves as I trace my fingers across your body and seduce your mind into loving every second of it. If I am feeling particularly nasty I will make you wear my gloves and I will make you touch yourself, if you don’t, I will spank you with them later on. I will then make you resist touching yourself, even when the pre-cum is spilling from the tip of your cock. Having patience and resistance is an honorable trait.

Slipping my gloves back on, I will tease you once again, before bending you over and spanking your ass, because you definitely did something wrong. How does this end? With an orgasm or with a whimper? How you act is how I determine this and truthfully not many clients have been good enough for me to make them cum when these sex gloves are involved. All of them disobey me in one way or another.

Having Someone Use These Gloves On Me?

I have actually had these gloves used on me, not by a client but by a hookup. I am into BDSM and bondage too and I love feeling what it’s like to be like a client of mine with a stranger. This guy wore these gloves and did everything right, he squeezed my breasts, caressed my nipples and brought me to the brink of orgasm again and again.

He spanked me hard, leaving little cuts all over my ass, he traced his spiky fingers all over my body and left me whimpering in pleasure and in pain. I loved how good it felt and I vowed to always use them on my clients, they needed to know this pleasure too.

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What Is Fetlife and Why Do I Use It Everyday?

Fetlife is the biggest online community where kinks come together and mingle. It’s a bit like Facebook but it’s for people who are horny and want to share their hidden kinks. Fetlife allows you to date, chat, exchange pictures, upload videos, upload pictures, list your kinks, give information about yourself and become friends with other kinksters. It also shows you events in your area and it allows you to see what others are saying about other members you may be interested in.

I use it as I love finding people to have casual sex with, I may be a dominatrix but I still have another life outside of my dungeon. I use it most days, I talk on there with other kinksters, I meet up with people, I attend events and I enjoy sharing some pictures every now and again. I have met some great people on there, people who you would walk past in the street and never know just how kinky they are.

I Still Love Casual Sex With Other Kinks (This is how I find them)

I love my job, being a dominatrix was made for me but sometimes I just enjoy hooking up with people who don’t know me and who don’t know my job. I hook up with these people without any expectations, I don’t need to perform, there are no strings and no pressure if things don’t go to plan. I am also just a normal female at the end of the day and I need casual sometimes very kinky sex just like the rest of the world from time to time.

Being able to hook up with people who don’t know me as a dominatrix helps me to really let go, have fun and not to sound big-headed but I often blow the minds of the people I sleep with, they are always so shocked at how good I am, I guess my profile is pretty tame.

What My Preference Is On Fetlife:

– I prefer straight males or bi couples, I always have the most fun with this preference and find it the easiest to hook up with.

-I enjoy reading through people’s kinks but I don’t often opt for people with huge kinks, I also try to avoid men who want to be submissive and men who want me to be incredibly submissive. It’s too much like being at work for me and I like to try something new, this doesn’t mean I don’t go for it but it’s fun to try new things.

-I like people who have got a few good comments and feedback from others.

– I look for people in my area, I don’t wish to travel for sex.

-I enjoy trying new things that I maybe haven’t tried before.

-Couples are my priority at the moment, I love joining in.

-I only go for people who have pictures on their profiles.

-I don’t go for people in my line of work, they must not have any involvement in the industry.

-I am happy to play with a woman on her own but it isn’t my go-to preference.

How I Use Fetlife (My Review)

Some people head onto Fetlife and message everyone they find interesting, some wait to be messaged, some just lurk around and observe and maybe they attend an event every now and again, everyone is different but this is how I use Fetlife.

I make sure my profile is up to date, making sure I alter my kink preferences from time to time, depending on how I am feeling and what I am looking for. I make sure my pictures are as close to reality as possible and I never use any of my dominatrix pictures. I will look for people in my area or at the very most a couple of miles away and then either message them or find that they message me. I ask to talk to people a little bit before meeting and when we meet I make sure we meet in a public space and there I decide if I like them enough to hook up with.

I don’t allow any pictures or videos but I may take pictures of the aftermath if there is a lot of cum or if there’s just something hot to snap such as a pair of wet panties.

If I really like a person I will give them my number and we can speak more fluidly on a messaging app, this is usually with couples as I find it takes them a while to be comfortable and sure they want to invite me into their relationship.

What it looks like inside (sneak a peak)

Inside it’s pretty dark, it adds to the whole mystique of the site. It’s easy to navigate and once you start using it for a while you will see that it’s actually pretty easy to use even if it does seem a little daunting, to begin with.

You can find people in your location by just choosing to explore and that’s where you will find the events get filtered to you and what’s upcoming in your city or town.

The Hottest Hookup From Fetlife (Story)

One hookup I will never forget and I am sure they won’t either is when I met with a couple who had never ever done anything like it before. We were talking off the website and on a message service on our phones and we hit it off, it was like talking to old friends. Both the male and the female were my type of people and we got along so so well.

I broke my own rule as they were from out of town but they were too cute to not break my rule for. We met up at a hotel they were staying at for a chat and to see if our friendship was as good in real life, they were really unsure about having a threesome as they didn’t want to change their relationship dynamic and I was really respectful about that. But as soon as I saw them it was like it was meant to be and I was so turned on and I knew they were too. They were so eager to use me in their bedroom but neither of them had ever had a threesome let alone let someone into their relationship. I am a professional so I knew all of the right things to do and say to make them comfortable back in their room.

Once we got undressed the sex was like nothing I have ever had before and nothing has beaten it yet. Both of them were ravenous and they made me cum so hard. The favor was returned and both of them were screaming at the top of their lungs in ecstasy, both of them totally let go of their inhibitions and both were performing for me and for themselves on a level I had never been at before. Everything was so intense and every touch was making us all tremble. We were all exhausted by the end of it, hours had passed and we were sweating and covered in sticky fluids. I have never ever experienced anything as intense again and I can’t wait for them to be back in town sometime so we can do it all again.

Sites Like Fetlife (Where I Find Hookups)

I love Fetlife but I also have a handful of other sites that I like to use too. Sometimes there is just nobody on Fetlife that I am into, this isn’t often but it can happen so below I have left you some of the other sites I frequent.

Alt.com

This site is more BDSM orientated by it allows you to find hookups in your area. The people on this site are usually into swinging, BDSM, different fetishes and more intense bondage. If any of these things sound fun to you, it’s a great place to hang out. I use this site when I am looking for something quick, intense and even sometimes if I just want a little dirty chat. The people are always friendly and accommodating and nothing goes unsaid, it’s a great place to hang and meet new people into what you’re into.

Adult Friend Finder

If you’re into swinging and casual hookups adult friend finder is great. I went to an event that was promoted on this site and it was amazing. I was a single girl so favored in the group but there were couples swinging right next to me as I shared their partners with other people. It was a great night and it wasn’t my only one. I also met a couple on there who were seasonal swinging professionals, we met up and she wanted to be cuckolded (cuckquean), I fucked her husband in front of her, screaming his name and humiliating her as she sat in the corner fingering herself, it was great.

fetish.com

If you have a kink, no matter what it is there will be someone on this site that has it too and who wants to help you fulfill that desire. It’s crammed with people like you who don’t shame, who understand and who are horny. There are so many different kinks out there and people willing to try them. I love this site for finding people who want to help me tick something off my bucket list or even just scratch a burning itch for a new kink that I have. For instance, I had an urge for some outdoor sex, I found the right person and we made it happen in a forest, popular with dog walkers.

CollarSpace

Collaspace allows you to browse people in your country (rather than a city) and from there you can see detailed explanations and intros to these people. Most people are quite open and upfront, most people include pictures and you are able to message them easily. The site, however, is quite old and can be a little bit difficult to navigate at times.

Update: This site has gone a little downhill, it used to be a hub for loads of kinks and still is, however, their web designers have taken a break and it’s hard to create an account and make changes to an existing account, due to them not verifying the changes.

Bondage.com

Exclusively for the BDSM, fetish, bondage and kink community, this is a dating site where you can meet others looking for love or hookups near you. It allows you to be quite specific about your location, preferences, what you’re looking for and about you. There are lots of people on this site and people aren’t shy about telling you exactly what they want and how they want it. If you’re tired of finding people who aren’t into whatever you’re into then it’s a great site to get you started.

Reddit

BDSM hookup – Filled with people continuously posting and looking for specific hookups.

Cuckold – People sharing cuckold experiences and looking for cuckolds in their area.

BDSM kinksters – Redditors looking for people into certain kinks to play with.

Swingers – Swinging couples and singles looking for people to swap with and play with.

Fuckbook

Meet, hookup and chat without any strings. It’s a great site crammed with singles and couples looking for a bit of fun without all of the usual niceties and drama. Explain what you want, find the right person and get straight down to it without any of the messing around. I enjoy fuckbook for real casual hookups when I just want to fuck and be gone.

BDSM Singles

A site crammed with singles looking for others to play with who enjoy BDSM and all things kinky. It’s a great site, however much like ‘CollarSpace’ it is quite old and can be a little tricky to navigate. Despite its age, it still is a popular site with many people on it looking for kinky hookups.

Ashly Madison (Wild Card)

Ashley madison is just a little wild card I thought I would throw in for the certain reader reading this. It’s a naughty site for people looking for a discreet hookup and more importantly an affair, whilst it’s not exactly kosher, it is fun to browse through and even roleplay on.

What Sites Will You Find Me On The Most?

I use Fetlife, Adult friend finder, and Fetish.com the most out of all of the sites I mentioned, I find I enjoy the people and I love how the sites work and navigate. I think they are really great for hookups, experimentation, and some naughty chat.

If you do find me on these sites feel free to message me but please don’t share my profile as I do this privately and not for work, I would really appreciate your discretion.

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